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my pregnancys

okay here is my stories i try and tried having a another baby with my sons dad we never got pregnant and i still dont know why i guess it wasnt meant to be i guess anyways we broke up thank god and i met this amazing man name michael we got to know each other and we wanted to try for a baby well we met in march 09 i got pregnant in june 09 i was sick not getting sick but was sick went for my ultrasound i was 10 weeks they told me i miscarried my baby did have a heartbeat rip babyboy i think anyways we tired and tired again for 4 months every month i got my period i was so sad and the around thanksgiving in 09 my period was 1 day late so i took a dollar store test and it showed a light line i was happy well i had a digital test so about 4 am i took it and it said PREGNANT i was like omg 9 months later i have a lil babygirl name mckenzie she is the light of my life

Samantha

Finding out

My name is Julia and I found out I was pregnant the day after my sweet 16 birthday. I ended up getting pregnant when I was 15 and not knowing until afterwards. I went to go get a test and it came back as positive my parents were kind of angry about who I got pregnant by because he was not fit to be a parent. When I told my baby's father that I was pregnant he looked at the sonogram that I had first gotten and said its not my baby I told him that it was impossible because he was the only one I had sex with at the time. I ended up being depressed and disappointed for a while when I was pregnant so I ended up having my baby prematurely I was 33 weeks and 2 days pregnant when I had him which was at the beginning of 8 months. My little boy had to stay in the hospital 2 weeks after he was born and when I showed a picture of him to his father he finally manned up and said that is my baby I can't deny it. Me and my baby's father are no longer together but he still calls every once in awhile to check up on our son. My advice to teenagers out there is to really wait until you get married before you have sex because having a baby can change your life completely especially if the father is not there which is the situation I'm in.

Julia Rosenzweig

Hopelessly confused

I'm not sure how it all came about, but I went through a period in my life where I just really wanted a baby. I picked out names and everything. It would've been perfect since my current boyfriend that I planned on getting pregnant with would graduate this year and would watch the baby while I finished school. The only thing that is stopping me is my dad. He doesn't want to see his little and only girl grow up so fast. I toss the ideas around. One week I will want one and then next I won't want one at all. So if you have any advice for me please let me know, I would love to hear from someone other than my self.

Lauren Jessica

Lauren Jessica

An answered prayer

I have 2 children from a previous marriage and my fiancé has one daughter. We were dating only a few months when we found out we were pregnant. We were freaked but excited too. That quickly turned to horror when I miscarried at 11 weeks. We mourned n decided to leave it up to god if we got pregnant again. Last week I was having a few signs of pregnancy. Kinda brushed them off. I thought about getting a test several times but kept putting it off for fear of a false negative. But finally yesterday evening I broke down n got 2. I got home n took one n it was positive bf the urine went completely across. Needless to say we r ecstatic but worried beyond imagination. With gods help we will deliver a healthy baby mid June of 2011. Stay strong.

Kendra

Teenage Pregnancy and beyond

Well wen I found out I was pregnant I was lik OMG dis can't b happening 2 me,I was upgrading some of my CXC subjects at the moment,my mom was d only bread winnner of our home and I knew she wud hav been disappointed. I wasn’t dat promiscuous girl he was my first and only love. We always use to talk about having kids and getting married but it came sooner dan we expected.

All I cud hav thought about was not having dis kid,My boyfriend and I were both young didn't have no job,no money and didn't even get d oppurtunity 2 enjoy our youthful days.I knew my mom wud hav surely b dissapointed and his dad might as well kill him and put his ass out. We were in some deep shit!

Time came and our parents heard d news,d first thing they said was dat I had 2 stop school becoz of my condition.But I refused I continue school wit my big ass belly whilst everyone else gave their comments.

My mom was my all and I didn't want to disappointed her again,so I sat d exam, nevertheless she gave her continuing support wit her gravol,coconut water and alcolado.My boyfriends parents had no choice but to accept the fact of d situation and thankfully he stood by my side.

It was that moment when baby “ C ” came into the picture,wen we were wat they call parents.I never grew up wit my dad and my boyfriend wanted to be wit us so he had ask me 2 come live at his parents.I didn't want my daughter 2 live d life I lived with d absence of her father so I went wit d flow.

The time had come when I got my CXC results and I fortunately was successful.So I was able to get a job.It was difficult 4 my boyfriend to get a job so he did Construction.

We had our sleepless nights,our difficulties with money and I was really uncomfortable and still is at his parents home.

But we made it through,wen “ C ” was 2yrs I decided to try out the courses that they have since it was gate approved and I successfully got through wit The University of The West Indies. I'm in a better job even was offered a better position. My boyfriend in better words Fiance’ yes becoz we r getting married and about to get our own home, got himself a decent stable job and we r both upgrading our qualifications.

The point I'm trying to make is.... don't let becoming a young mom turn your mind away from achieving your goals."Yes you can" with determination,prayer and hard work all dreams can come true,and please continue to enjoy your youthful Days.

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