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i was 14 when i first started having sex, i'm now 15. i found i was pregnant 3 weeks after my Quinceniera.. i didnt really consider the guy i was seeing my boyfriend..i had a boyfriend and he still has a girlfriend but she lives in Mexico...and they havent really ever met in person but they have been dating for 3 months now..and i decided to dump my boyfriend because i didnt want to keep hurting him..and when i found out i was pregnant i told the guy and he said he was gonna be there for me and everything but not say he was the dad...or say we had anything to do with eachother that he was gonnla love the baby like no other but not to say he was the father cause you loves his girlfriend and doesnt wanna lose her but i ask myself how can you love someone and then be having sex and going out with someone else?? can you explain that to me please? im still going to school and i got a job at my uncles restaurant doesnt pay that good but atleast its something and he gives me some money every month even though i still dont have the baby...and the worst part is that my parents dint like the news of course which parents would at first now they support me but kicked me out of the house....and im now living with my friend and her family until the baby;s dad buys an apartmennt for me...

Jacko

Was 17&pregnant

Hi. First of all, being 17 at the time I never knew that i would get pregnant. Until i found out i was 12 weeks. my boyfriend&I were a senior at the time. I had a strict mother also, but she wasn't around much during my junior&senior year. She was working at another place.But she was mad, but got over it when i found out i was having a boy! She always wanted a boy. But she had me and my sister. So i pretty much living alone. I started dating this guy in 8th grade but it was up&down most of that time. But i didn't start having sex until i was in 10th grade. By 12th grade, i was pregnant. I was scared, bcuz most story i've heard were teen becoming single parent with not support of their baby's father. Will eventually he had to know. He expect that i was pregnant. We both became teen parents and supported each other. He got a job after school. before my graduation, i had a beautiful son before mother's day. My mom was happy to have a grandson. I had great support in school. Today this day my son is 3 years old and i am 21&my man is 22. Were not yet married, but were already consider married. I am a full time student/mom/wife. my man works and soon going back to school to get his bachelor degree. Were planning to have another soon. But we decided to wait after he gets his bachelor degree. Marriage is on hold." It is hard work girl who think having sex is fun, but it comes with great responsibility when you find out your pregnant and after. There are many ways to prevent getting pregnant. Raising a child is expensive these day. Nothing is free! So protect yourself. Don't go thinking that getting pregnant is a way to have your man stay with you."

Michelle

Unknowing and stuck

Well my name is Deja & I'm 16 years old . I'm a junior in highschool ad iguess you can say I'm inlove with a boy that I consider my bestfriend and other half. My babe and I have know eachother for almost 3 years now always hadda crush on eachother but recently started really taking our feeling seriously. Well you know things happened and we ended up having sex. Now I'm sitting here with nausea and bloating but I know my period is not for another week. My bestfried thinks I'm pregnant and babe has asked me if I'm pregnant I just Dont know if iam . My mother and I have talked about if I ever got pregnant in high school how she would be dissappointed but she would be there for me . I guess Ima just have to wait and see what this test says if I ever decide to take one. Keep you guys posted!

Deja :)

Dejaa boo

16 & scared

Hi everyone, my name is Daisha and I'm 16 and pregnant. My boyfriend Tyler and I have been together since august and yesterday I just found out I was pregnant. I didn't know how to tell my mom so I got my best friend Mia(who lives with me) to tell her. When I told my mom she said she already knew it and she was calm but was scared about telling my step- father. After dinner me my mom Mia and my aunt sat down and told him. She completely snapped on my mom blaming her and I felt horrible! Because this was not her fault it was Tyler and mines. I go to the doctors on dec. 14 that's my first app. I'm scared, what if I can't do this? What if I fail as being a mother at 16. My parents and Tyler parents both say they will help us as much as they can but they shouldn't have too. I don't want to give my baby away because then I will feel weak. And I feel I will make everyone suffer around me if I keep my baby. Me and Tyler want to keep it but on the tv shows it always talks about the parents breaking up and fighting. I'm just scared and don't know what to do. I love my child and Tyler and want what's best for us.


Daisha.

Daisha

a hard descion to make,as a teenager

so i am in high school.me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. he is a senior and i am a junior. i knew that i loved him after our first month.it all started when we had our first pregancy scare,our 3 month into our relationship. we felt scared, stressed out, and felt distant from each other.it was the worst feeling i had in my whole life.but soon after it was negative.we had 5 more scares after that.and then we decided no more sex for a whille.then our problems went away.soon after that things went back to nomal.we had our up and downs, but he proved that he will stay with me no matter what and hes still proving his love to me.til now. we are in a another scare,but we are more certain about this.i know that im pregant,you just know.But theres a big problem i dont believe in abortation. I can not kill an inoccent,unborn child. But he does believe in abortation. He says that he will stick with me no matte what desscion i make. Lets see if he does truly love me. I just hopeing im making the right desscion,by keeping it.

celina