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Biggest Regret

Hey everyone my name is nadia and i;m 16 years old. back in march of last year, I've lost my virginity to a person who i thought loved me. we had sex numerous of times even unprotected sex once! in july in 2008 i found out i was pregnant but i didnt tell my my ex boyfriend, i kept in it for so long and didnt no what to do. until finally i told him...he adviced me to do an abortion and september 13th 2008 i had an abortion of a sets of twins, they were 2 little to tell what they were going to be and almost to large to have an abortion. as first only one baby was showing on the scrren but then after wards we seen teh second one...as i was lying on the table in the surgery room i was so scared and was rethinking everything however i went along with it, and did the abortion. i came out pretending to be fine and wahtso ever, y best friends aunty went with me to do it since my parents didnt no. after a few months me n my ex broke up and he denied my baby. he said i was a liar and he dosent belive me and so on about being pregnant or ever was being pregnant and if i was maybe it wasnt his. its horrible to know someone u went tru so much with..disowns u and act like ur no 1 to them. its so hard upto this day n i regret it so badly ever hading an abortion i cry day n nite i love my babies. atleast i still would have had them....so out there just becarful and dont do things you'll regret...12.21.07 , 09.13.08=(

Nadia

slowly losing hope

hello i am new to this website and i have read many of the stories on here and i thought i was alone in my thoughts of how hard it is to try to concieve i am a 30 yrs old and my husband and i have been married for going on 3 years now i am slowly losing hope over the past year people all around me are having babies like its easy but for me its not i have the support of my husband who loves me to death but at times weather he admits it or not i see the sadness in his eyes i feel like a failure as a wife but he assures me month after month that im not he is willing to adopt a child which i have no problem with cause plenty of children out there need good homes but i always thought that if i got married first then deciced to have a child it would happen just like that but it didnt does it get easier i hope im tired of crying and being sad and crying at diaper commercials i just needed to vent thanks

rayetta

sad motherhood

im missy 19 yrs old living in my man but not yet married.i have kid(kathy).my man is still studying and i stop my studies to take care of my baby(8months,old)his mom use to say such thing that hurts me,he also have sister working in dubai and have kid here that her sister left.hi s mom treat that kid so well,she buy her anything she want anything she needs.but when it comes to my kid.its always credit that i have to pay as soon as possible.i cannot buy anything for my kid.a toy or a walker.even the dress of my kid are all second hand.i pity my baby so much.it reallllyyyy hurt to know that you can give your kid the best of anything.i talked to my man but he just said that he was still studying.i hate it!why hecouldnt work like other man?his sister working in dubai always send money for his niece and never give any cent for my baby?how could they treat us like this?poor kid having a family like this.i realy regret.if i could turn back time.so teens,dont rush out.think wisely.love can never feed your baby and your tummy.

missy

my story

Okay.It was June 5th,2006.I had just turned 14 years old.My relationship with Corey Taylor was going going perfect.He asked me if we could take it to the next level.So like most other girls my age,i said yes.Afterwards,i went home.After about a month, i started feeling sick.i remembered that i had had sex.I asked my BFF,Shenae,to come pick me up and take me to the strore.I bought a test.When i took it, i freaked out.I was pregnant.I am now almost 17 years old.My daughter Adrienne will be 3 in April.Please wait to have sex!

Kassie

Trying to Conceive With Little Success

My husband and I have been married for 8 months. Although we both love children and cannot wait to start a family together, we decided to wait for a baby until he finishes school (2 years). About 2 months after our wedding, I missed my period. This was extremely unusual because I was on birth control and my cycle was always exactly 28 days. So, I bought a pregnancy test and found out I was pregnant! We were both shocked but ssssoooo excited!!!!! We started making plans, talking about names, etc. At 10 weeks, I lost the baby. It was the most heartbreaking experience I have ever endured. After the miscarriage, we decided to try for another baby. Since we got pregnant while on birth control the first time, we figured getting pregnant again would be easy. It has been 4 months of trying and still no baby. Month after month I get so discouraged. We're both still young (I'm 21 and he's 24), so I know we have plenty of time, but I am not a very patient person! My period is scheduled to start in 3 days, and I am praying with all my heart that it won't come!!!!!! I usually start PMS about 1 week before my period., but so far I have not had any of the usual symptoms. I have been extremely exhausted and nauseas...I can barely keep anything down in the morning! I had a small amount of spotting halfway through my cycle, which I think may have been implantation bleeding, but I'm afraid to get my hopes up too high. Anyway, in 3 days we will know whether it's good news or not! Blessings to you mommas and those of you who are still trying! Don't lose hope! The Lord will provide!

Krys