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Hoping for a early christmas gift

Hi and and husband have been together for five years now. And we never used anying protection. And i never got pregnant. I went to the doctor and she told me ii was not ovualating right. And she gave me meds for that. 6 months go bye and im still not pregnant. Seem like every month we come close to being pregnant. But always a neg! And everyone around me have kids or are pregnant. And i find myself crying and depress. I dont like hangin around people with kids or pregnant. Because i cant control my feelings. But here it is 1st of Dec. And im having signs of implatation bleeding. I hope santa sent us a big gift.

Courtney

JUST BEGINNING

HI there me and my husband have been married nearly 3 months and we have just decided to start trying for a baby, he already has a six year old daughter so we would love to have a little boy but i will be chuffed with a girl just the same, ive been on the pill for nearly 6 years so im hoping this wont affect my chances of getting pregnant quickly too much. i cant wait to be a mummy its all ive wanted for a very long time but wanted to wait untill we were married and had a stable income first. ive started taking folic acid and have a doctors app in a week to get the low down, although reading all these stories has been a big help, wish me luck and i hope its all going well to everyone else who is trying, will let you know how it goes!!!!!

VICTORIA

OMG!!! Please be Soon!!

I have been thru all the negative testing and feeling like i am pregnant. Me n my bf have been trying for sum time now and i really hope we will get pregnant soon..maybe itll be everyones xmas present :) but neways alot of ppl in my family want me to have a baby soon. my sis wants to b an auntie and pretty much everyone else doesnt think its a bad idea...im geting positive feedback about me & my having a baby. Not to mention that my sis-in-law just had a baby so of course there is sum pressure to have one but its not bad pressure. i want a boy and so does my bf but we will be happy with what God gives us..i cant wait til i get to see that little pink line on the stick...i wish everyone luck with there hopes of pregnancy and those who are already pregnant!!!!!!

Missy

Baby fever?

I really need to get this off my chest. My husband is very tired of hearing abou it.

I want a baby. I want to have a child very badly.

11 of my friends are pregnant or just had their baby, now i don't want to get pregnant because all my friends are doing it. I wanted to hve a child right after I got married, at 18,1 month after i graduated high school, but my husband convinced me to wait. Which ultimetally I think was a good idea. I am now in college and desperaetally wanting a baby. I have 3 more semesters to go untill i graduate, and i dont want to wait.

I understand that waiting till i graudate will be better and easier for me but i really dont want to. for the longest time i was very concerned with what my family will think of that. ultimetally i can to realize that i am 20 years old my husband is 24 and if we want to have a baby it is only our opinions that matter, that i shouldn't be worried about hwat any one else will think. that is we want a baby then we should have a baby.

Both my husband and i want kids, he wants 2 i want 3 but we will get to that desicion after we have 2. He wants to wait untill i am done with college, which is tough for me. as i wanted a child at 18 and i have foreced myself to wait, but i just dont want to wait anymore.

Any advice on how to put these feelings of baby fever on hold.

I know that it would be best to wait till i graduate. I don't plan on doing anything with my degree i am only getting it becuase my family excepts it of me. I am getting a bachalor of science in business and economics. This degree will not secure me a better paying job. I like the job that i have now and would like to keep it, so the degree is not going to better me in any way, i hate going to college, i feel like it has put my life on hold. But it would be nice to get it done and over with.

I was just hoping to get some advice on how to not focus on this so much. Everytime i see one of my firends with their children or pregnant i feel like i am going to cry and in many cases i have to excuse myself and go up to my room or into the closest bathroom and cry a few tears before pulling myself back togeather.

My husband really doesn't want to talk about it any more becuase i just get upset. im not sure who to talk to about this anymore becuase no one wants to talk with me about it anymore.

Advice?

Erica

excited and ready! i hope!

i'm 26 my husband is 30 we've been together for 5 years, in this last year theres been a lot of talk about having kids, he's teacher, i'm a personal trainer we just bought a house and have a huge debt... in the last 3 months my husband has really wanted to start trying but i keep putting it off cause i want it to be at the right time, finacially..etc (it's never the right time is it?) at the same time i want to be a young mum, i spend hours looking at anything to do with pregnancy online and i find myself checking out pregnant women and guessing how far along they might be!... i've set a date for when we'll start trying cause i live overseas from my mum and family and would want them to be able to visit for the birth.... i took a bit of advice from a story on here ... i'm not going to worry too much about the ovulation calculations !(thanks for the eye opener) i could see myself getting too wrapped up in that rather than the moment it's meant to be ...theres also the worry of it not happening at all...guess only time will tell ...
so maybe i've given everything too much thought!... we are very excited about the idea of pregnancy!! (he's even been renting all the clucky movies... Juno, knocked up)!!

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