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My scared hubby

I was married in may,1995 when I was about 23 years old. My husband loved me a lot. It was our sort-of love marriage.
My husband was very much eager to have a baby. He just did't have patience! He waited for a month..negative result!..then the second..it was soon too much for him. As we are Indian-Muslims,he beleived in Darga's and stuff! One day, when I was in my sister's home,he told me to get ready to go to one of the dargahs. I obeyed him. When I went to change my clothes,I found that I had got my periods.
As we weren't supposed to go to any such places during mentruation time; I told him that I couldn't come. He couldn't control hinself and started crying! I was too confused as I loved my husband a lot!
My elder-sis and he shared a good friendship. She consoled him and quiten him.
Then in the third month of our marriage,I finally got pregnant!
I had my first daughter in 1996 and named her Moina. I have 2 kids after her. A daughter and then a son.
Anyone can imagine how much we both love our kids. Me and my husband,like any other parents can do just anything for our children.
My husband was the one who most wanted us both to be married and now you know how much he wanted a child!
You know it's not always the woman who craves to have a strong relationship or be a parent!
My first daughter is 14 this year and we hope the best for all three of them!

Sameena Saleem

Mistakes Happen

You young ladies are to young to be having kids.I understand that u think you in love with your high school sweet heart ,but your chances of being with him forever one in a million. A couple a real men might step up and take the plate and be a real father.You never know who your real love is so don't give it up to just anybody wait until your married and ready because with every mistake you make there is a cosequence you have to suffer.Remember that.To all the young ladies out there who thinks he won't love you if you don't give it up he never loved you anyway,but I LOVE YOU even though I don't know you.

Leah B.

Such A Surprise

Im only 14 and had my beautiful baby girl two weeks before my 14th birthday. My ex-boyfriend of eleven months didnt say. But the only fear i had was having to tell my mom. i had a home pregnancy test, and left it on her dresser with a note. It said ' Mom, i think i might be pregnant ' and she sure enough called me crying. But now i dont regret anything really except having to drop out of school. My baby Reece is absolutely amazing. She is my everything! i may be young but you learn to grow up FAST!

Kaitlin

Christmas Surprise

My story was my worst nightmare, something i hoped would not happen till later when i was ready. On the 10th of December i had an appointment to get myself on birthcontrol. My boyfriend and i had been together almost two years and had never use contraception and hadn't gotten pregnant, yet. I thought it was because he was a heavy liquor drinker, so when he decided he wasn't going to drink anymore, i made the appointment. My appointment wasn't for another month and we just had those urges. After haveing a normal pap-smer, I was given my pills and was told to wait till my period started befor i start taking them. That was the 10th. I waited and waited and since it was close to christmas, our family had a lot to do. But my period was always at the back of my mind. Befor i knew it, it was christmas and my period was no were in sight. Two days later on the 27th of Dec., i decided to tell my boyfriend i hadn't started yet. We told his mom and then when tot the dollar store to get a cheap pregnancy test. I get home and everyone is there. His mom and dad, grandmother, aunt, first child, and his cousins who i have known longer than i have him, were all waiting for us to get back. I took the test and within two seconds, the positive line showed up. I was shocked just standing in my bathroom looking at the positive test not knowing what to do next. So, i walk out and say two word to my family "I'm pregnant", then fainted. When i came too all i could see was that positive test in my mind. Then i could see the father of my child in hysterics, literally jumping for joy with all the family gathered around me to make sure im not dead! I get up, shaken but okay, and call my daddy to tell him of his new late christmas gift, a grandchild. I'm almost 6 months now and wouldn't change one detail on how we found out our little Sophia existed!!

Priscilla

Huge Hopes for a baby!!!

I have no had a period since Early Feb. In FEB. i had unprotected sex. Since then i have tooken approximately 7 HPTS. I also took a Urine Pregnancy test a the OB-GYN and took a blood Pregnancy at the lab when i was only one day late wtih my period. BTW they have all came out negative!! Its driving me up a wall bacause if i am not pregnant where is my period. I am not under any stress and everything in my life seems to be pretty much going okay. I took another blood pregnancy test yesterday on April.19,2010 and I get the results back in a day or so. I really want to have a baby and i am hoping this happens for me. If the test results come back negative and say i am not pregnant then the doctor wants me to get a ct scan on my stomach. I am afraid that something is going to be wrong, but i am hoping for the best. Thanks for taking yout ime out reading my story... Baby dust to all !! And Congrats on all the moms to be!!

Monique