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I Will Still Make It Even If He's Not There

I'm 18 years old and finishing my last year in high school. This guy and i have been off and on for the past 3 years. I really loved him with all of my heart and I thought he felt the same way. Back in early September we had sex but it wasn't our first time having sex with each other. Him and I didn't think about protection or even the possibilities that I could get pregnant because I didn't get pregnant the first time we had sex. About two weeks later I start feeling really weird like having morning sickness, headaches, hungry all the time and really bad bloating.

I told him that I could be pregnant but I really didn't know. All he said is what are we going to do if you are and that he would be there the whole way. I told my parents right away because I was just really scared. They weren't as mad at me as I thought they would be. They asked me if I had already skipped my period. I told them I didn't know because I had what I thought was my period for 3 days but it was really light. So my mom bought a test and behold it came up positive. I told him at the end of September and we thought about our future and the baby that we made. I'm now 4 months pregnant and he left me back in mid October. To this day I still don't know why he left. I haven't really spoke to him but I don't need him. If he doesn't want to be in his child's life than oh well, it's his fault.

Teen girls think before you act. If you decide to have sex young than that means you decided that you also want a baby young. I made the wrong choice but no matter what I will take care of my baby and give it all the love it needs. I know it will not be easy but it is not the end of the world.

Jan

Help me I'm confused

I'm 22 years old and me and my husband were trying to get pregnant.
My last period was 9/27/07 and I have all signs of pregnancy and I have taken like I swear 10 hpt and all negative also took a blood test again negative.

I bought a prenatal heart listener and heard a heart beat. It was going too fast my mom and aunt heard it, as well as my husband I don't know if I'm going crazy or am in fact pregnant someone please help.

If I am I'm about three or four months pregnant. P.S. I have stretch marks also.

Thank you


samantha

Unplanned and Unsure

Well everything is so crazy. I have nobody to talk to at all about this. I have been on the pill since I was 16, and am now 19. Ortho Evra to be exact. I just recently found out I was pregnant from taking two test and both coming out to be positive. My boyfriend does not want a child. We both are ONLY 19. However, to totally understand where I am going to be coming from, I have to give you a little family history. My sister has had FIVE abortions, and one of them was a set of twins. Twins goes every other generation in my family. She was the second sister out of four and I am the fourth.

So I could possibly have a chance of twins also. This is where it gets confusing. All of my sisters have two children now, and I am supposed to be the one to go to college and make something of myself. What do I do? Me and my have talked, but the only way we don't fight is when abortion comes up. It makes him happy and I try to agree to keep him happy. Am I wrong to try to keep him happy?

I'm not sure if I could ever get an abortion. I don't want to be constantly wondering what sports my little baby could have been in, or awards won, or who their first boyfriend/girlfriend were. You know? But what about my life? Am I being selfish? There's so much at stake for all three of us. Me, my boyfriend, and this baby in me. I have no idea. If I could just get some opinions, that would be so great. I need to hear anything from someone else. I've done research but all the educated information you can receive never compares to true stories. Thank you.

Lindy

don't know

I went off my bc last month, and now this month I haven't gotten my period. I am now 7 days late and nauseated a lot of the time. I get nasty headaches and am always tired. I have taken 3 tests and the first two the first box turns all pink (the one that says if your pregnant) and the second box has the line but the pink box then has a faint line in it. t

The last one was a dollar trre test and it said neg. I don't know what to think anymore. I don't know if I am pregnant or my period is just messed up. It's usually pretty normal except last month when it was a brownish and very light and only lasted 3 days the last time I went off my pills my period lasted for like 7 days. If anyone can help it would be great!!!!

danielle

Hoping...

Well, i've always wanted a child, but i'm still on the pill because my husband and i aren't positive we do want a baby quite yet. This month, however, i forgot a few pills. thats happened before, twice, but each time my period came early. this time, still no period.

ive been nauseous for about a week now, and so tired and crabby. my mind has played tricks on me before, but the clincher this time is the fact that my period hasnt come early in spite of missing 3 pills, also i had a bit of spotting at the approx. date implantation should have occurred. also, i've always been worried about my husbands sperm count because he takes hot baths all the time.

but for the month around when we would have conceived, we werent having sex as often so its very possible his sperm count would have been higher than normal. i take my last pill tomorrow and then i will wait a few days to see if i get my period. i've had 'scares' before and let my imagination run wild but i've never been pregnant.

this time, i hope my mind isnt just playing tricks on me again. i dont think i could take it again. i want to be pregnant very badly, but i am praying for gods will to be done. he knows better than i do.

Milla