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i want to know if I'm pregnant

I had my last period on April 13th and let's just say today's June 2nd and its still not here. I'm married, 23 and right now very frustrated because I took two pregnancy tests and they were both negative.

But still no period, the only signs I have are: nausea, very tired and cravings but my breasts aren't swollen or tender. Right now I don't mind being pregnant but if I am, then I want it to show up on the test.


dayema

Hoping for a miracle

I am hoping and praying that I will be blessed by GOD to have a healthy baby girl.

I have dreamed about having a baby since I was six years old . My husband does not really want children but, I am hoping he will change his mind! PLEASE PRAY FOR ME! The thought of never being pregnant KILLS ME!

AngieS

Not sure but half hopeful

I am 15 and won't be sixteen till August yet I am mature for my age in both emotional and academic intelligence. I've just finished school and am currently on study leave. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago without protection. He gets tested regularly and as I was a virgin we were both safe in that sense.

But we both wanted a baby and talked about our future together much beforehand. I am proud to say it was my decision as much as his (both to lose my virginity to him and to try maybe for a baby) and I don't regret it. It's so rare to find a guy who is so committed he wants to be a father.

We had sex about a week after my period and now I think I’m pregnant. It's hard to tell because my periods are either really bad or not at all, irregular. But I think I am pregnant, all the signs are there I’m just too scared to go to a doctor. I haven't told him yet as some family problems are taking up his mind but I’m beginning to worry now. I feel nauseous and tired, lots of cravings, swollen abdomen and belly feels firmer, back hurts, headaches and the lot. My friends tell me I’m stupid and that I shouldn't of been so foolish, that I should have an abortion if I am. Although, thankfully they will support me keeping it and my parents are supportive even though I haven't mentioned anything. No one told me how lonely you could feel when no one is as excited as you or positive, when you feel too dumb to admit your fears.

At the moment I do hope I am though, I feel ready enough. Recovering from my life previously has been hard and I’ve felt pretty lost. Possibly being pregnant grounds you. I had a dream I was pregnant and everything, which means a lot in some cultures. I think I’ll probably have a boy first, just a feeling. I think when I know I’ll feel much better although it would be hard if u weren’t, as it just seems so likely.

My advice to anyone young who feels broody is to sit it out, believe me it's different once you realize what's done is done. Sure my parents were only together less than a year before they tried for me and they lasted for 12 years. But its so much nicer not to worry about what people will say and money and the like... just wish I knew so I could plan what to do next...

I'll write again when I know...


S

Not sure...

I am 15 will be 16 on June 16, 2007. I am a junior in high school and a varsity cheerleader. I have the best guy anyone could ask for. We have been together going on three years. We started having sex about a year and a half ago. I'm not on birth control and we don't use condoms. I know that's stupid and am just asking to get pregnant, but it's sort of hard to explain.

We had sex one week after my period and someone told me that was the best time to get pregnant, but I really don't know. I don't know if I am just stressing my self out, but at cheerleading practice I got sick. I felt really sick to my stomach, I was dizzy, and I was seeing black dots. I'm really not sure why. I have been feeling sick to my stomach a little here and there, headaches, and feeling tired.

I told my boyfriend I thought I may be pregnant and he freaked. He says he’s not ready for this, but he will help me out as much as possible. I haven't told my mom cause I don't know how. My period should be here in the next week. I will write again and tell what happens


Gwen

I'm scared

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I lost my virginity to him. I was on birth control before I met him and we have never used protection. I stopped taking my birth control because I felt like it was making me depressed and I've been off for almost 3 months.

I'm so scared that I might be pregnant because I had some light pink and brown spotting and I have 1 more week until my period is supposed to start. I want kids but now is not the time for me because I'm about to be into my 3rd year of college and a baby is not what I need.

I will be the first in my family to get my degree and I don't want to disappoint my parents. I haven't told my bf that I think I'm pregnant but I'm going to take a hpt 1st then tell him.


Melinda