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Us To!!!!

My name is Brittany. My birthday is January 1 and I should be 19 years old. My husband is 25 and we have been trying to have a baby for a year so far. I have read a lot of your stories and some sound all to familiar. And I just wanted to say to all who believe in the good lord and to those of you whom do not. That God works in mysterious ways. An no matter how many doctors we go see or how many ovulation tests or charting we do, if its not Gods time then its not going to happen. Before we started trying to concieve I don't think I quiet understood the word PATIENCE. But let me tell you somethin, this has showed me that everything don't work out when we want where we want it or how we want it. So my advise to you all is to put your trust where it really matters, and stop worrying yourselves cause its all on The Good Lords time. Good things come sometimes to those who wait an believe on Him. Love you all an I will pray for you.

Taken Over

I got pregnant the night of my boyfriends birthday. It was the 1st time we had ever done anything. I didn't want to do anything because i had a feeling something was going to go wrong. I had told him i didnt want to because i was scared. But, it didn't stop him. The next morning I had a gut feeling & I had told him. But, he assured me everything was ok and there was nothing to worry about. For two weeks I had missed my cycle and normally i always get it on time. I was with my bestfriend when I took my first pregnancy test in my life. I was scared as ever when i saw the "+" sign. I started freaking out and called my boyfriends bestfriend. He told me not to worry & frank (my boyfriend) would be there for me. I text my boyfriend that night telling him I had to speak to him in person. The next day at his house I was sitting on the bed next to him and my bestfriend. There was an awkward silence for a while til' he asked me what was wrong. For about 10 min i tried to tell him but it wouldn't come out. So my bestfriend ended up telling him " Emiliy is Pregnant". After that our first decision was abortion. After about two weeks of over thinking it we decided to keep it. We kept it a secret from out parents for about 2 months. Only his cousins knew and our close friends. The night we told my mom she flipped out on me. She thought it was a April fools joke. She ended up being in control. She wanted an abortion and no one else did. Frankls mother tried convincing her to keep it. She ended up making the appointment. The night before the appointment I spoke to my friend melanie she told me when im at the clinic to tell them u don't want this. when i was at the clinic i told the nurse as she was setting up the stuff that i didnt want this. I ended up getting my legs strapped down by the doctor. I cried on the table til i fell asleep with my hand upon my tummy. when i woke up I felt like i had a nightmare and when i realized in 2 secs it wasnt a nightmare i started frekaing out. I cried and screamed in front of all the patients not caring how id effect them. When i go to the care i was shut and didnt speak to my mother. I contacted my boyfriend and he was at work. He told me hes b there for me. He also promised me kids when we were ready. about a week and a half after the abortion and having PAS (post abortion Syndrome) he broke up with me. I blame evrything on my mother and til' this day i don't forgive her. I know i love him and things will end up better once things start calming down. It might be later than sooner.

Emiliy Madeline

Conceiving our Second Child

With my husband we're trying to conceive our second child. Even if it's only been 5 months I feel it's been ages we're trying. We conceived our first born in 4 months. Last month I had all the symptoms of being pregnant. I was convinced at 100% I was. But my periods came and we were devastated. I felt totally humiliated as I even told my mum that I was convinced I was pregnant. This time around I will just keep it to myself. My son is two and half and I my husband is 33. I will like to bring our little fourth member in the family so we're complete. I hope God will bless us soon.

Sandy

twice, maybe.

i'm recently turned seventeen and when i was 16 in april 09 i got pregnant. i wanted to keep it and mum said she'd support me but it was really obvious what she wanted. so after breaking up with my boyfriend, in july i had an abortion. i considered adoption but i could not give my baby away. in october i got back with my boyfriend and now find myself possibly being pregnant again. if i am, this time i will keep it, but i really do not know how my family will take it. this is one of the hardest things in my life.

Sandy

thinking

well for starters. i dont really know if i am pregnant. i haven't had my period in like a month and so many weeks. im dating a 38 yr. old which i am only 18 but he knows. its not his. i had a one night stand with a guy a while back we didn't use protection so im pretty sure im pregnant. my mom doesnt know because i don't know how to tell her. she would probably be upset with me if i told her and then she would say i messed my life up. because the guy that would be the baby's dad would say "I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY THE BABY ISN'T MINE" that would be the exact words that would come out of his mouth. i don't know what to do someone please give me an idea of what to do. my cousin keeps telling me to take a pregnancy test but i'm too scared to do it. and if i were to be pregnant i wouldn't know where to go or what to do or who to go to for help. and i would'nt tell the father. i would just let him live his life the way that he planned!

idk