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Cheering up

I've been married for 11 years and for some reason we can't get pregnant. Our tests did not show any problems. We are quite busy, traveling a lot, and I went back to college, so I didn't feel any special pressure to have a baby. BUt sometimes I think it would be nice to have one. And when I start thinking about it too much, about my AF- is it coming or not coming, and hoping that it wouldn't come- I get a bit depressed, because we are not in a position of going for IUI or other treatments. But when I'm really sad,it happens that my husband says something really stupid, or acts like a real jerk- so- I know it's weird- but it cheers me up instantly. It's like, that maybe God knows what he does when he did not have us any kids- because my husband is a jerk and such a redneck sometimes!!!!!! Of course, he's not that bad. I mean, he just have these "moments"....But it really helps. I'm getting angry at him and forget about not having a baby....

Mary

deep Sadness

My husband and I are trying to have a baby for almost 4 years, we got married late. We have done every test in the world and the diagnosis was unexplained infertility due to advanced age. I have regular period ,I had two miscarriages on early pregnancy. This month I have done IUI and I have one more week to do the pregnancy test.Tthis will be my last chance and my last hope, having a baby and being a Mom was my everyday dream. I have to admit if I do not get pregnant this month I will lose all my hope ,Please pray for me . It is the hardest diagnsis ever to be diagnose with infertility.I pray that nobosy have to go through this problem , Good luck to you all.

Pari

let's all pray for each other

I HAVE THREE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN..AGES 15, 6 AND 4 WHOM I RAISED ON MY OWN. I FINALLY FOUND MY "LIFE PARTNER" AND MARRIED THIS PAST MAY. MY HUSBAND IS SIGNIFICANTLY YOUNGER THAN I SO CONCEIVING A CHILD WITH HIM SEEMED LIKE A SIMPLE THING. MUCH TO MY SURPRISE, MONTH AFTER MONTH WENT BY AND NOTHING HAPPENED. WE DECIDED TO HAVE A SEMEN ANALYSIS TO CHECK THINGS OUT WITH HIM AND MUCH TO OUR SURPRISE, HIS SPERM COUNT WAS ON THE LOW SIDE AND THE MOTILITY AND VIABILITY AND MORPHOLOGY WERE NOT GOOD. SO WE WENT TO AN INFERTILITY DOCTOR WHO DID OUR FIRST IUI AND A COUPLE DAYS AGO, I STARTED MY MONTHLY CYCLE. IT IS REALLY FRUSTRATING AS IT SEEMS LIKE WE ARE LIVING AROUND MY "CYCLE" EVERY MONTH. I THOUGHT IT WOULD FINALLY BE OVER. I HONESTLY DONT KNOW WHY THINGS HAPPEN AS THEY DO BUT PLEASE PRAY FOR US. AND I WILL BE PRAYING FOR ALL OF YOU WHO I HAVE READ ABOUT TONIGHT AND GOD WILLING, WE WILL ALL BE BLESSED WITH GODS GREATEST GIFT.
SINCERELY,
HANNAH

hannah fabian

To Under Cover Want-to-be-Mom

I just wanted you to know that God loves you no matter what you've done in the past. If you made mistakes, just repent and ask His forgiveness and it is yours! God is a God of mercy and loves us unconditionally. Believe in the goodness of God! Just as our natural parents love us and they don't want to see harm come to us even when we make mistakes, our heavenly Father feels the same way. Forgive your self and accept God's forgiveness. May God's blessings be with you and your babies to come.

KO

I pray

I am about to turn 20 and I have been researching on pregnancy and labor. I want to have kids so bad whenever I am married. I have always though of pregnancy as being beautiul. I have had an irregular period since I was 13. This I know is very common to everyone but my scare is I am turning 20 and it still is irregular. I have been on many kinds of birth controls to regulate it, but I am so scared for some chance it is going to affect my ability to have children.

I want to have kids so bad and when I talked to my doctor she said it would be more common to not be able to have children if you weren't having your periods as opposed to having irregular or frequent periods.

I have no idea if this is really any sign to be worried about but I am praying it won't.

Becky