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I was born three months early! But before I get to that, Let's go back to my mom's pregnancy. My mother was 19 and was in highschool when she found out she was expecting me. She told my Aunt Pat and my Aunt took my grandmother to NC ( we live in SC) and told her on Mother's day that she was to be a grandmother. Soon after that my Mother graduated highschool and got married to my Father. They moved in together and everything was fine until the night before my birthday. She started having back pains and made a Dr.s appointment for the last day of sept......at 9am. Her due date wasn't until Dec. so she thought she had a while. Her doctor checked her and she was 2-3 cm dialated. The dr. told her to go straight to the hospital. She did. When she was settled she called my dad to finish work and get a bag ready. Well, soon after she was given shots and many efforts to try and stop her labor nothing was working!!! She went to pee in a bedpan, and her water broke as soon as she set down. The nurse called the dr. and the dr checked her and checked the heartbeat of me and it was low. The dr. told my mom to push and the nurse realized my umbilicord was wrapped around my neck. The nurse held me inside my mother's womb until they got to the OR where she had an emergency C-section. As soon as I was cleaned off they rushed me to the NICU. Where they gave me a breathing tube and I was checked out. I weighed 2lbs. and 6oz. My mother wanted to spend every moment holding me and being with me. Soon after she was discharged she visited me every time she could. She never lefted my side. Every day there would be a new card with words of hope on my incubator. On my one month of being alive she told me I made it this far so I could keep fighting. That month I took a turn for the worst. I had fluid and blood around my brain. The dr.s all told my Mother that I was going to be mentally hanicaped and I that wouldn't grow hair on my head and thats if I survived the shunt that they were going to do.( A shunt is where the dr.s drill holes in the skull and put tubes in and drain the pressure off the brain.) After they did that, It worked!!! My mom came up every day and slept in the waiting room waiting on the next time to see me. The doctor got tired of her sleeping in the waiting room month after month. She finally got to take me home in Dec. I weighed 4 pounds and 5 oz. I was suposed to be 5 pounds. As I grew up, all the doctor's were proven WRONG!!! I am 17 and graduating in Dec. from highschool and I am a good student. I have a full head of hair and have asthma and drpression. Other than that I'm healthy and I have all 10 fingers and 10 toes!!!! I'm a survivor of circumstance and my mother later found out that she had an incompitie cervix but Ladies have hope, My mother's had 2 other healthy children!

Patricia

PKU

Hi my name is tiffany and i gave birth to my second boy in january! We had no idea how this little guy would change our lives. At a week old Maverick was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder called PKU, this is a very serious complication in which the liver is lacking the enzyme that breaks down proiten! Mavericks body can not get rid of any protien that is ingested into his body which makes his protien levels gt out of control, this can cause mental retartdation along with a list of other horrible side effects if we dont keep his levels under control! We have had to weigh and measure formulas so that his protien level stays where it needs to be because everyone has to have some protien to grow he just cant have alot, he has a special medical formula he will always have to drink to get the proper nutirants for his body that he is lacking in getting from his food! What this means is he will be vegitarian for his entire life,no meat,cheese,eggs, milk,nuts anything from an animal at all! Every peice of vegtable and fruit has to be weight its alot to deal with being a 25 year old mother but i will do it cause his life hangs in the balance! Every baby is checked at birth for this disorder, that is what they get there hill stuck for, just know that u are blessed to have ur child no matter how they are born it took me a good 2 months to quit asking "why my baby" but he is a perfect child and perfectly healthy its just my job tomake sure he stays this way, babies born with this disorder are perfectly normal and will be as long as PKU is cought within 3 weeks of birth! Just wanted to share my story and to let other parents out there know u might feel alone in this world but ur not, my child has a disorder that affects only 1 in 15,000 and him and my husbands uncle have this so its very rare!

tiffany

Cholestasis in pregnancy

I had Cholestasis 35 weeks into my pregnancy it started about 3am i woke with severe itching all over my body it was that bad i had to get up and jump in a cold shower, i had read magazines weeks before this happened so i knew the itching wasnt normal so i called the hospital and went straight down. They took blood samples and the next day thy confirmed i had OC. The doctor then told me that i will have to take tablets untill i give birth and i will be induced at 38 weeks. from that day untill i was induced i had to go into hospital every other day to check my babies heart beat. And then i was induced at 38 weeks my labour was 5 hours and was quite an easy labour it wasnt till i got home the next day that i realised something was wrong with my baby he wasnt feeding i started to panic and took him to hospital again they tested him for everything i was there a week and half by his side i was stillw weak at the time and didnt eat i was that upset but they released him a week and half after and put it down to a viral infection as they couldnt find the problem im just so lucky to have him here today.

I just hope any mum wth this condition looks out for their baby not feeding when there born and takes them straight to hospital if not.

michelle

michelle

Preeclampsia

I only found out I had preeclampsia after I gave birth to my son, I was given a stern talking to for not advising the staff at the maternity hospital in advance. I simply had not know, I had been assured by GP that the protein in my urine, the headaches, the swelling of my feet and hands and my rising blood pressue was all just part of pregnancy! I had to be given an injection during my very hard labour, and rand in to various complications. My doctor at the time, had told me not to be reading magazines of pregnancy books when I asked her had I got preeclampsia. Thankfully there wre not long term effects for me or my baby and I cahnged to a new doctor! 12 years on, and Im pregnant again, and to be honest terrified!! I would urge any expectant mothers out there to get a second opinion if they feel they have this or any other potentially threatening complication. Its not always the best thing to go on blind faith in your doctor :(

Hazel

intrahepatic cholestasis of pregnancy

In March of 2009 (at 20 years old), I was about 35 weeks pregnant with my first child when I noticed that the palms of my hands and soles of my feet would start itching when i laid down at night to sleep.After a couple of nights, the itching spread to my whole body, but only at night. My boyfriend and I at first thought it was bed bugs and I began sleeping on the couch, but that made no difference at all. One day, on my way to work, I noticed my whole body was unbearably itching..and it wasn't even night! By the time i got to work, my skin was red almost everywhere from me itching. My boss was extemely worried and told me I should call my doctor. My OB/GYN's office was closed that day (a friday), but the message directed me to call the maternity ward of our local hospital, who then gave me the number of the doctor on call. I spoke to one of the office staff who told me the itching was probably PUPS, and to go buy some benadryl and take an Aveeno bath. I did this, but was miserable again after about 30 minutes. The next day, my boyfriend and I made the 3 hour trip to his parents house to see if a change of environment would make a difference..no suck luck. But I was able to do some research on PUPS and quickly realized that was NOT what I had. On that same page was a link for Cholestasis of Pregnancy, and while going through the symptoms, I realized I had very many of the symptoms - itching with no rash, itching that had started with my hands and feet at night, light stools, and dark urine.
That monday, I called my OB and explained to the nurse that I what I was experiencing, what it was called, that it could cause stillbirth, and that I wasn't crazy. After informing my OB and calling me back, she instructed me to go to the hospital right away to have some blood tests done, and to go to the office the next day for the results. At her office, when she confirmed my suspicions, I immediately started to cry..I didn't want my baby to be stillborn! She told me in her ten years of practice, this was the first case she had ever seen, and she wanted to consult with a neonatologist before deciding what action to take. I received a call from her on my cell phone at 9 PM that night..she had decided it would be best to induce that Friday at 6am (at 37 weeks).
I went to the hospital on Wednesday and Thursday for the steroid shot to develop my baby's lungs and for non-stress tests to make sure he was doing okay. On Thursday night, I was given a cervix relaxer and my contractions started around midnight. Soon after getting the Pitocin at 6am, my water broke and my son was born about 9:52 AM. Other than being a little Jaundiced and having some trouble eating, he was perfectly healthy.
My itching stopped almost immediately, and my liver function was back to normal by my two week post natal appointment.
I feel I owe my son's life not only to my intuition that it was something more and my research, but also to my OB for taking me seriously and acting promptly. I am now 29 weeks pregnant with my daughter. The itching hasn't started yet, and I have a new OB due to a change in insurance, but I am confident that with being armed with what I know about the condition and my options for treatment, I'll be able to help my him act appropriately to make this pregnancy as successful as my first.

Lily