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Gestational Diabetes x4

I am on my 4th successful pregnancy (others were early missed miscarriages) and have had gestational diabetes each time. During my first pregnancy I was uninsured and went to the local Planned Parenthood to make payments and see the doctor that they could arrange for me.

I barely passed the diabetes test and they did not have me retest. When I changed to the dr I was put on a diet and closely monitored. When I delivered my son 4 weeks later he appeared to be post term, although he was 2 weeks early. They warned me to insist on monitoring with any future pregnancies because it looked like my placenta was having problems.

With my second son I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes during the routine screening and went to see the dietician every 3 weeks. I was able to control my numbers through diet and all appeared to be going well. At 34 weeks I began failing the Non-Stress Tests and was going in every 3 days for monitoring. At 35 weeks 6 days I failed a Stress Test and my son was born 1 hour later by emergency c/section. The placenta had again begun to fail and he was safest on the outside. He spent 8 hours in the nursery for monitoring and then was able to room with me.

With my 3rd son I was placed on the diet as soon as I got pregnant and monitored my blood sugar throughout. I was able to control my numbers with diet and did not have any trouble with non-stress or stress tests. I began to go into labor with him at 36 weeks 4 days and the dr decided that it was better to go ahead and deliver him. He didn't need any special care except that he had to have his blood sugar monitored (as usual with gd).

During one of his first breastfeeding sessions he was very lethargic and not sucking properly. I asked the lactation consultant to take him to the nursery because "something is wrong." She came back 1 hour later to let me know that his blood sugar had been 40 (very low) and that they gave him sugar water and would return him after he stabilized. It took about 2 hours and he started on sugar water and formula but he was healthy and we never had a problem with feeding after that.

This time I've been on the diet since finding out I was pregnant. I had some issues with my fasting tests during the first trimester but not excessively high. After I got into the 2nd trimester things seemed normal. At about 22 weeks I started failing fasting tests again and the diet doesn't seem to be working. I will be going to see the specialist this week. I am sure that I will need insulin this time. As long as the baby is healthy I won't mind.

I don't even mind knowing I will have a repeat c/s. I had my first (non-medicated) vaginally so I know how that can be and don't feel any remorse. I just want my baby to be healthy and home. I've only got about 11-13 more weeks to go, I can do anything for that short amount of time to have a healthy baby.


Yabby

Cholestasis of Pregnancy

When I was 7 months pregnant, my appendix burst. When I got home from the hospital and began to recover I started to itch all over. I really thought my skin was just really dry because the hospital was so dry. However, no matter what kind of lotion I used, nothing helped. Also, the condition continued. I went on-line to research itchiness during pregnancy. Everywhere I looked said that itchiness during pregnancy was completely normal. One site contained one sentence saying that itchiness was normal, but it you itched all over without a rash to mention it to your physician because it could indicate a liver condition. I brought the itchiness up to my doctor and she took some blood to run a liver function test. When it came back, my levels were elevated. I was not told how elevated or what this could mean. She took blood again to check the levels again.

At this point in my pregnancy I was being monitored weekly because of my gestational diabetes, as well as the burst appendix. Between the appointment where I was told my levels were elevated and my next appointment, I did some more searching on the internet and found out about ICP. I was panicked! The fact that there is an increased risk of stillbirth is frightening. I began to pray very hard! At my next appointment I was told that my levels were elevated again and that they were now going to monitor me bi-weekly. I was sent to the hospital for a bio-physical report on the baby. The baby seemed fine and they sent me home.

However, I was still itching miserably and getting very little sleep. I was also reading more on the condition and learned that monitoring the baby does not help as the danger seems to be a sudden event! When I went to the hospital the next time to be monitored again, my levels were up yet again. They finally consulted a perinatologist who understood the dangers of the condition and immediately admitted me to the hospital and started to induce labor. I was at exactly 37 weeks.

Fortunately, I delivered a healthy 5 pound 5 ounce little boy. If the perinatolgist had not been consulted, I may not have my little boy. Many other women have gone undiagnosed or have not been treated appropriately and have lost their babies. I am currently 6 weeks pregnant with my second child. My first liver function test already shows elevated levels. However, not enough research has been done to know what this means to me, or my baby.

Please, help get the word out to women that this condition exists! Many women may be in danger and they don’t even know it since most of the information for pregnant women says that itching is normal! We also need to help the medical profession get the word out as to how to diagnose and treat this condition. Many OB/GYNs are unaware. Finally, we need research on this condition. What is the best treatment? What are the long-term effects on the children? What are the long-term effects on the mothers?

Thank you and God Bless,

Amy Warfield

Yabby

ICP

In November 2003 I found out I was pregnant and due in August. I was having a wonderful pregnancy, feeling great, eating healthy, doing my “fit mama” exercise videos, and working. During my third trimester I became itchy all over my body and mentioned it to my doctor during one of my check-ups. After a blood test, I was diagnosed with Intrahepatic Cholestasis of Pregnancy, also known as ICP.

ICP is rare and affects 1 to 2 pregnancies in 1000. The risks are premature labor, fetal and maternal hemorrhaging, fetal distress, and most importantly, stillbirth. 25% of babies whose mothers have ICP are stillborn. ICP refers to a specific liver condition in which the normal flow of bile is impaired in a woman's body resulting in severe itching. It usually begins in the third trimester, when hormone concentrations are at their highest levels. There is still much to be learned about the exact causes of ICP and its manifestation, but researchers are currently investigating genetic, hormonal, and environmental factors. There has been some research that indicates a particular gene mutation in some ICP patients, but much is yet to be learned.

I was extremely grateful that my doctor caught this. My scheduled delivery date was set for July 20th and I had several appointments in between to make sure the baby was still alive and had not been poisoned by toxic concentration of bile salts passing through the placenta. I have heard that several women who have ICP/OC and don’t know it, become institutionalized because the itching is so severe or people think they are crazy because it is so rare that sometimes doctors don’t know about it. I have also read there is a suicide rate associated with it.

The itch occurs anywhere where blood vessels are which is everywhere. It is worse at night and concentrated in the hands and feet. I even remember trying to scratch my tongue and inside of my nose. During one of my check-ups the nurses were surprised I had it. They said the women that they’ve seen diagnosed usually show up with full-length scabs on arms and legs. My itching became so bad I could not sleep. I took between 4-5 showers daily because the water was refreshing on my body. It got so bad I was prescribed slipping pills, which are usually a “non-n” for pregnant women.

I tried to continue working and doing lots of crafts to take my mind off the itching but the sleeplessness caught up with me and I could not drive to work. Maria-Antonia Lucille (Macy) amazed us all by being born healthy on July 13th 2004. Amazing Macy continues to surprise us daily with her huge dimples and contagious smile.

Both of us want to spread this information on behalf of those that have not been as fortunate to know this condition existed.

My story has a happy ending.

toni and macy

ICP

I was diagnosed with ICP when I was 36 weeks pregnant. I started itching at about 34 weeks and thought it was normal pregnancy itching. As the days passed the itching continued to get worse. At 35 weeks I had a feeling the itching wasn’t normal and called my doctor.

Lucky for me he had heard of ICP and had me come in for a blood test. There are many women who have doctors that have never heard of ICP and think the itching is normal. I went in to the doctor at 36 weeks (March 20, 2006) and was diagnosed with ICP. I was told that it increases stillbirth up to 10%. He put me on medication and sent me home. That week seemed to be the longest week of my life. I got a lot of information from the web site www.itchymoms.com . The message board was great as well. Talking to other women who were going through or had been through what I was going through was such a big help. It also made me aware of how bad it could get.

Hearing what women went through past the itching to the loss of their baby. It made me sad and scared. The itching got worse. I was scratching so hard that I developed bruises on my arms and legs. I also made myself bleed but I couldn’t stop scratching. The medication was supposed to help with the itching but it did little to help me. I was so scared of giving birth and never hearing my baby cry. I told my husband that when our baby was born I wanted to hold her no matter what. It was hard to get the image out of my head of holding my baby girl and her being stillborn.

There are many women out there who didn’t just imagine it they lived it. We had an amino done on Monday March 27 (37 weeks pregnant) that showed our baby’s lungs were not developed. My doctor wanted to wait until Thursday to induce. This scared my husband and I. Everything we read said to induce no later than 37 weeks. We were also scared about her lungs not being developed. At about 10:00 that evening we received a phone call from my doctor. He said after a day of putting out fires he went home and couldn’t get his mind off my case. He called a specialist who told him with Cholestasis you don’t want to wait; he said to get the baby out as soon as possible. He told us we needed to get to the hospital as soon as possible and they would start the induction when we got there.

At 1:23pm on March 28, 2006 I gave birth to a beautiful, healthy baby girl. I loved hearing her cry! I look back often and wonder what would have happened if my doctor didn’t stop to think about what was best. What if he didn’t call the specialist? Would I have heard my baby cry? What if my doctor was one of the doctors that say the itching is normal due to pregnancy? Would my situation have come out differently?

ICP has affected my life in so many ways. I want to have more children but that is a hard decision to make. I will most likely have ICP in the next pregnancy. Having to go through all of that again scares me. Many women suffer from this and don’t know. Many doctors are uninformed. My case is mild compared to what some women have suffered through.

Thank you for your time,

Jenny

Obstetric Cholestasis

My story begins with my second pregnancy. My first pregnancy had been happy and more or less comfortable. I had had some problems with high blood pressure but my first daughter was born healthy and well with a midwife at home. When I found I was pregnant again I returned to the same midwife for my prenatal care again. We were both concerned about preeclampsia and kept a close eye on my blood pressure.

Early on in the pregnancy I had problems with anemia, and slight urinary tract infections. I took care of both through diet and though the UTIs were never full-blown they were tenacious. We were all relieved to see that my blood pressure was staying nice and low, well out of the range of concern. This pregnancy was not as comfortable as my first; I assumed it was because I had a four year old to care for too and much less time for myself. I assumed the depression I felt was related to exhaustion, which in turn was related to insomnia and that that was all normal. I was also slightly jaundiced, most apparent in my eyes. Why we didn’t follow up on this I do not know.

By the last month of the pregnancy there was a much more sinister symptom keeping me awake at night. I was itchy. My palms were especially itchy and I would lie in bed at night rubbing them on the sheets, trying to not to scratch hard enough to make them bleed. My head and legs and belly itched too but as there was no rash I assumed that it was something normal, stretching skin maybe.

I went into labor spontaneously at 39 weeks, a week before my due date. Three days before that we had been to the midwife’s clinic for an ultrasound. The midwife and the technician had glowed with confidence that our baby was ready and well. They gave me the thumbs up and told me to be ready any day. Labor was quick and intense as it had been with my first. The midwife could not find a heartbeat when she tried to check with the Doppler. The gravity of that escaped me however, as the same thing had happened in the quick labor with my first. I was in the tub when my water broke and we all knew immediately that something was wrong. The water turned dark with meconium staining. My midwife looked alarmed but there was no time to discuss it, the baby was crowning and out.

As I pushed her out of me into the water everything seemed to move in slow motion. She was not the right color, she was not moving. The midwife swept her into her arms and started mouth to mouth. She swept the tiny mouth for something caught. She rubbed the baby vigorously. She started CPR. I, still in the tub, still attached, looked on helplessly and begged my baby to take a breath. Hurriedly she cut the cord and whisked the baby to the bedroom. I kept calling out, “Breathe baby! Please breathe!” until suddenly it seemed like it had been too long and I was then praying silently to God to take her and keep her safe.

In Mexico, where I live, there is a law that states that the dead must be cremated or buried within 24 hours of death. I knew at the time that we could also have asked for an autopsy but the thought of a stranger cutting up my sweet baby for an answer which we were told was unlikely to be conclusive was more traumatic on that day than my husband and I could bear. Four months after Wendy died I was up late, reading other mothers’ accounts of their stillborn babies. Before Wendy I had no idea how large a community there is, held together online by our common and unbearable loss. That night I happened to read in one account, “. . . the main symptom was itchy hands and feet, if you have this in pregnancy, go to www.itchymoms.com right now! Do not wait!”. I followed the link, hardly breathing in my fear and anticipation of what I would find. What I found was a list of symptoms, all of which I had had during my pregnancy with Wendy. Itching, Dark Urine, Pale Stools, Depression, Jaundice, Loss of Appetite.

When the first shockwave of grief and anger and horror had passed from the realization that Wendy’s death could have been avoided I called a friend, another midwife who had been at Wendy’s birth as my friend and doula. I told her what I had found and she sent me to the lab the next day for blood tests, a general liver panel. I had elevated levels of a number of liver enzymes. It wasn’t conclusive of course, four months post-partum, but I am sure. Since then I have read everything I can find about ICP and everything I have read reconfirms in my mind that this supposedly rare disorder is what killed my daughter. This disorder may be rare but I have found it quite alarming that other women who have the symptoms and suspect ICP find that their concerns are frequently dismissed by doctors. Why this should be so is a mystery to me.

I cannot imagine what a doctor or midwife could possibly gain by ignoring their clients’ fears, especially when the stakes can be so incredibly high. I hope that by sending you my story I will have some small part in raising awareness and perhaps Wendy’s death can serve a part in saving someone else’s. It is now a year since Wendy’s birth and I am pregnant again. I pray that this baby will grow safe and secure but I am already taking steps to strengthen my liver and if ICP returns I will not settle for half-hearted care.

I am so grateful to Itchymoms.com for providing information and a community of support for all parents who find themselves on this road.

With hopes for healthy mamas and babies,

Penelope