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1 misscarriage, 3 missed misscarriages.

Hi all,

I just turned 39. I have 2 beautiful girls. the oldest just turned 10 and the youngest is 7. In 2006 I was unexpectedly pregnant. A couple of weeks later, it ended in a miscarriage. I was devastated but accepted the situation because it was my first time. In 2008, I was ready for an addition to my family. I got pregnant. Was so excited, especially as I could follow the development of the embreyo week by week on the internet. Everyday as I got out of bed, the first thing was to turn on the computer to see my connect with the joy that was in me. But my first ultrasound at 9 weeks gave no heartbeat and showed that the bb had stopped growing at 7weeks. Needless to say I was really devastated. I wanted to get pregnant again immediately and my husby said we should wait for atleast 6months. We waited, and April of 2009 I got pregnant again. After 8 weeks another missed miscarriage. The pain is beyong words. In august of 2009, I got pregnant again. I'm supposed to be 6/4 today. But my visit to the gynacologist today showed no heartbeat. She said the size of the embreyo is that of a 5weeks old which means it stopped growing at 5weeks. I have an appointment with her next week to see if maybe we had miscaculated the pregnancy but I'm not putting my trust in to it. I'm really lost for works, to imagine that this is occured to me again. When will I ever be able to have another safe pregnancy again? Age is really catching up with me. Just one of those sad days.

Irene

hurt,angery,confused the love i lost

I'm doing this story over because I dident get to say everything I was feeling the 1st time around so herr it goes.My name is michelle I'm 25 years old my husband and I just got married on march 28,2009 once we got married I was ready to start a family so u could emagin the joy I felt when I found out I was pregnant on august 8,2009, We told, Well he told his family about our joy but his nana and his mother there reaction to me was the worst the frist thing thay said out there mouth was why now at that point I know thay did not want me to be pregnant so I tried to forget about it and move on with my excitement every one in our life other then them was so happy,august 18,2009 I woke up and i was bleeding by august 25,2009 I found out that I was having miscarriage the very thing I wanted so much dreamed about asked god for was riped away from me before I could enjoy everything about being pregnant the doctors did not want to tell me so my husband had to brake the news to me I knew what was happing but to here it from my husbands mouth made it so real. I was hurt,angrey,confused could not understand why god would give me this blessing and take it away just like that like a crule joke I know I should not question why god does the thing he does but that's so hard when I have so many questions.my sister-in law is pregnant she's do january and I was do in march so I'm trying to be happy for her but is so hard.I GUESS ONE DAY WE WILL GET OUR LITTLE BABYS BUT UNTELL THEN WE HAVE TO KEEP OUR HEAD UP AND HAVE FATH BECAUSE IF WE DONT WHO WILL DO IT FOR US.KEEP TRYING GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS.

michelle

the love i never got to know

My name is michelle I'm 25 years old just got married march 28,2009 I was so happy and ready for a baby so u couls just guess joy felt when I found out I was pregnant on august 15 so much joy in my heart I'm going to be a Mommy but it hurts to say my world came tumbling down on august 18 when I started to bleed by the 25th I found out I was having a miscarriage the dam doctors did not want to tell me so my husband had to break the news to me it was the wrost felling in the world that something that I wanted so muc such a blessing from god was taking away from me I could even get use to the ideas all the wemon who r going throw a miscarriage are have had one keep your head up we will get ours 1 love and god bless.

michelle

What a loss

My husband and I have our perfect daughter Bella who is 18 months old. We wanted to add to our family, but first I needed a hip replacment after being stung by a sting ray in Fiji. I had the hip surgery in May 09 and on August 30th we found out we were pregnant! We were so excited! however, we told my husbands parents and his mothers instant reacting was..............'dont get too excited, 4 out of 10 pregnancys end in miscarriage'.......we were gutted to hear these words but tried to stay excited. We told my family and everyone was very excited for us. Last night I felt damp between my legs, went to the bathroom, and to my shock I was bleeding. I called my mum right away and she said to stay in bed and use a pad. At 4 am I got up to find a little lump of bloody flesh on the pad, our baby. What devastation, we just lay there crying for the baby we had just lost. This morning I went for a scan and there was no sign of a baby, I am now empty. I feel so heart broken, but I know that God has a plan for all of our lives and for some weird reason, this is part of the plan. I have faith that we will conceive quickly and have a healthy perfect baby again soon. Thank you all for sharing your story and reading mine.

Kimberley

Kimberley

Scared and confused

My husband and I decided to try and concieve a baby exactly a year ago. My hsuband is 30 and I am 31, so we were aware that it might take some time. Nothing however could prepare me for what have happened in the past 12 months. I have had 3 positive pregnancy tests at different times and every time just as we want to start getting excited, I starting bleeding at only 5 weeks. This has been so emotional and cruel for both of us. There does not seem to be anything truly wrong and this month I am going to try clomid for the first time. Why this happens we'll never understand but I am so scared that I will never be able to concieve and stay pregnant!! :-(

Ronel van Heerden