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My New Curious Love

Hi my name is kelley and I am 17 years old. My boyfriend is 20, just turned it, and we recently enough found out that we are going to be having a baby. I just turned 17 in July so this is another BIG shock. I am really nervous because I see so many young girls with children who have NO i repeat NO responsibilites to their child. When i say this i mean that either their parents are taking care of that child or they just dont even care what happens to it. I dont want to be like that. In fact I REFUSE to be like that. i dont want to be some trashy mom who only thinks of herself, i want to be the stay at home, soccer mom who is completely loved and adored by her child. And i WILL be that mom. I feel different everyday and my mood swings are going crazy. But other than that. I am having the time of my life. I hope everyone else is doing great with their miracles of joy too. Bye.

<3Kelley&Baby

p.s. im 17 weeks and 2 weeks ago, my grandpa told me it was a girl. he is a doctor and has been for 36 years and told my aunt what both of her children would be and was right on both of them so ill take his word for it. so YAY. a little girl. :D lol. bye.

kelley

LITTLE MIRACLES

Hi! I am twenty-six and a half weeks pregnant. I am nineteen and this is my first pregnancy and boy has it been a ride. At five weeks i found out i was pregnant. I didn't have morning sickness or fatique. My first trimester was really a breeze except for the emotional changes and the feeling of not wanting this baby even though i was excited. I blame it mostly on my boyfriends reaction to it all. He is still getting used to it all. He is only twenty two.

Anyways at about twenty weeks he got into the first physical violence with me i have ever witnessed in four years. I had to walk up to the police station at two o'clock in the morning barefooted. I was so upset i thought i was going to lose my baby boy until he moved about twenty minutes later. Me and my boyfriend are still together. No i am not stupid i love him. i am giving him a chance to be a good father. my dad left when i was eleven. he has been in and out of jail since then. My boyfriend is a real sweetheart too. We were highschool sweethearts. He is now seeing a psychiatrist.

Anyways at twenty six weeks, only five days a go, i was in a car accident with my boyfriend driving his nice mustang that is totaled. It was a head on collision. Some idiots were passing on a corner and we just happen to come around the corner. Lucky for me my seat belt was on, but it was just the beginning. I immediately jumped out of the car and got about ten feet from the car and collapsed. I started panicking and crying saying over and over i need an ambulance. My boyfriend was a real hero he held me until the cops got there and he tried to calm me down. I was so worried about my baby for just minutes before he had been moving and now all i was feeling was cramping from where the seat belt hit me across the abdomen.

It seemed like forever for the ambulance to get there but it was probably about fifteen minutes. At had already called my mom in which she called my boyfriends parents. I was tooking to my hospital Providence. They gave me an iv while in the ambulance and i am still bruised from it. I was in the emergency when they used a doppler to check the heart beat. My babys heart beat was up a little but they said that was ok and my blood pressure was up a little too, but i have low blood pressure so it wasn't bad.

I was then tooking up to the maternity ward,labor and delivery, to be monitored. After being hooked up and waiting for ten minutes they told me i was having contractions and they were going to inject me with something to relax me and help me sleep. My mom, my boyfriend and his parents, and my neighbors were all there at this point. My boyfriend was holding my hand most of the time and was helping me keep it together. He finally left with his parents though because i told him he needed to get to work the next morning.

An hour later the nurse came in and woke me to tell me i was still having contractions and they were going to inject me with something to stop them. My contractions finally stopped at around midnight. My neighbors finally then went home. My mom slept on this chair that folded out into a bed. I woke up every fifteen or twenty minutes and at about three i had to have the nurse help me to the bathroom in which i almost collapsed but she said it was from the medication. At about six i gave up on sleep i began watching tv. Breakfast was there at about seven fifteen followed by my ob doctor checking up on me. I was released at about nine and it was the best feeling of freedom i have ever had.

Now the past week i have been tense. Not only am i sore and bruised every where i am also constantly making sure the baby moves or even slightest cramping scares me. I go to the doctor monday and hope she switched me to the every two weeks appointments because a girl can go crazy wondering if every thing is ok.

Well thanks for letting me share my story and good luck to all.

nessi

Scared

I've now entered into my 14 week and i honeslty am lookng so forward tot his new bundle of joy. I already have a 9 year old daughter, and i was surprised when i found out i was pregnant, my partner is over the moon. Only yesterday Sunday i felf a very strong cramp on the top of my left thigh and today i saw a a tiny browinsh/reddish clot. I'm still feeling little twitches, i just hope that my little is still there and this isn't a sign of a miscariage.

Tina

Getting more and more excited!!!

Hey Angela just wanted to throw this snack idea to you... i'm sitting at work right now and im always starving... (15 wks 3days) Today i brought a loaf of bread that was in my house and chunky peanut butter...its great and filling Im eating in in halves <3 good luck

Dianne

Excited!

Im 22 wks and 2 days pregnant and I couldnt be more happy.I found out when I was about 18 wks that Iw as having a boy! My boyfreind doesnt show his excitement the way I wish he would but I know he is.

The other night he put his head to my belly and was talking to our son. I am so happy and blessed for my gift.I pray everyday that my child will be born healthy and have a happy childhood!

congrats to all who are also pregnant!

Heather

Heather