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Loving my little one :)

My name is Kay and im in my second trimester 17 1/2 weks to be exact! I'm currently 16 years old but I'll be 17 when I have my baby. I'm a junior and high school and have a 4.0. My boyfriend is 16 too and hell be 17when the baby arrives.
Heres my story.
Well it all started when me and my boyfriend started dating 2 1/2 years ago. We were both in the 8th grade. We were friends at first and started to fall in love but we thought we were too young but no matter how much we denied it the more we loved each other. Everything was so perfect. I went to sleep everynight with a smile on my face. We tried to see each other whenever we could. It was about 7? Months when we first had sex. We used a condom because we wanted to be safe no matter what oh we were both virgins at the time lol. Anyway it wasn't that great so we didn't do it again for a few month but this time it was amazing. We still used condoms whenever we did it. When we were together about a year and a half he would stay over but we wouldn't have sex just mainly make out or touching. We always talked about getting married having a baby and being togetjer forever. One time we had sex without a condom but I didn't get pregnant. We did that for another year and I never got pregnant an we said it was probablt him since he smoked weed. I didn't like that. Anyway about 2 years he changed alot. He was always mad yelling at me and he hit me. I stopped living with him and went home he would always say he missed me but I stayed away for almost 3 months until he came over. We had sex and things were okay. I told him I didn't like he got high and that he hit me. And he told me he would stop both. I was stupid to believe it. About 2 months later I found out I was 13 weeks pregnant. I didn't want him to help me at all since he acted selfish and unsupportive. However he always found a way back in my life and now things are getting back on track. He stopped getting high and he loves to talk to the baby. He tells it about how we met and how much we love it. We try not to argue so it won't be traumatized in anyway (: all you young mothers keep your head up because you can do it! I'm finishing high and I'm going to raise my baby. With support from my family!

Kayla

is race still a issue?

I met my boyfriend when i was 17 he was 15 we started having to deal with alot of adult problems right away so we moved into an appartment together about 7 mths after we started dateing, shortly after that i found out i was pregnant i loved my boyfriend but i wasnt shur we would be together but we decided to have the baby in my 4th month i started to bleed alot we went to the hospital and i found out i had misscarried i was devistated i could not let go no mater how much time passed so i turned to my father for confort he refused to answer my calles or call me back i couldnt understand why months passed and still no word from my father. my boyfriend seen how much heartache i was going threw so he tried to get me pregnant again after 8 mths of trying we gave up we ended up moving in with my aunt a couple mths later, after about a year i started passing out and having seizers so i went to the hospital and found out i was 8 weeks pregnant (i was 19 he was 17)at first my boyfriend wasnt happy bc we were living with family and wernt in a passition to raise a child but he came around and became very excited to become a father when i decided to tell my family 2 ppl ( my dad and granddad)decided to turn there back on me completly not bc i was young or they had a good reason to not like my boyfriend but bc i am white and my boyfriend is black neither one have ever met him but believe that that reason alone they dont want nothing to do with me him or worst of all my child but what they dont realize is they hate him so much but he is 17 and has takin responsability for him self which is more then i can say for my worthless father who never came to see me or paid child sapport so why do they hate him so much he is out standing and makes me happy every day he even bought a crib ,stroller,bottles ,clothes ect. recently he proposed to me and we will be geting married in april. Is race so inportant its worth abandoning your family?

sasha

i m pregnent

i got bleeding in 1st month of my pregnancy then to conform i gone for ultrasound .At the month 2 once again i gone for ultra sound .At the month 3 also i gone for ultrasound.my Q is i did ultrasound for 3 times in 3 month is this harmful to my unborn.i took HCG injection 9 time in three months and vit k injection.if there is harm to my unborn.i m confused about it plz slove it

vidya

4th pregnacy

hi im currently 19wks pregnant and have only in the last couple of weeks not felt sick, this is my 4th pregnancy and child and my bump is huge already, im tired and hormonal more than the others but i have a 10, 7 and 2 year old to look after so i expect to be tired, with every twinge and movement i feel more nervous than with the others, im due my 20 wks scan next week and cant wait just to get another look at baby and hopefully put my mind at rest and all will be ok.

emma

To Teen Mom's or Mom's to be

I have been reading some stories here and one really got to me. The 16 and pregnancy. This child does not yet have the baby and is saying that "to all young Mothers it's not as hard as you think" I was a young Mother I was 19 when I had my first Daughter and it was VERY difficul. My life changed so much and then I had another child at 24 with my Husband and what a difference the age made. I was much more mature at that time and in all honesty took much better care of my second because I was in a different place in my life. It's so much better to wait until you are older. I am now 29 and pregnant with my 3rd child again w/my Husband same daddy as the second. I am confident that I am going to be an even better mother this time because of my mental stability. It also makes a huge difference depending on the guy that you are with. My first Daughters father was someone I was sure I was going to marry and he was going to be there forever, wow how silly I must have sounded to my parents like I hear here today. I think girls think that a baby is going to make a couple closer, but that is not the case, it's stressful on any couple young or old, but especially on teen couples. My Husband and I went through hard times after our Daughter was born because it was a huge life changing experience. We had less time for each other. We love our Daughter more than words, but you really need to have a solid relationship w/great understanding to handle a LIFE CHNAGING EXPERIENCE like having a baby... Kids are the best!!! And I love my kids and my unborn child, but I am now old enough to make wise decisions for them that I once couldn't with my first... I thought I was doing everything right until I was older and had my 2nd... So to all you TEEN Mom's it's a lot harder than you could ever imagine!!!!!!! It's worth it though

julie