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SINGLE MOMMY

IN MAY 7 2007 ME N MY FRIEND DISIDED TO GO TO THE CLINIC SO WE COULD BOTH TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST

WELL GUESS WHAT WE WERE BOTH PRENGNAT I CALLE MY BABYS DAD N TOLD HIM THE NEWS HE WAS SOO HAPPY I WENT TO HIS HOUSE

N TOLD HIS FAMILY THEY WERE HAPPY HE WAS TELLING EVERYONE I CAME HOME TOLD MY PARENTS MY MOM CRIED BUT WAS BEHIND ME
MY DAD DIDNT TALK TO ME FOR TWO MONTHS AFTER THOSE 2 MONTHS I FOUND OUT MY BABYS DAD DIDNT WANT TO WORK SO I LEFT HIM CAUSE HE DIDNT WATN TO HELP ME WITH MY BABY HE WANTED HIS MOM TO HELP ME I DIDNT SLEEP WITH HIS MOM I SLEPT WITH HIM AND I TOLD HIM NO WHEN I WAS 4 MONTHS I FOUND OUT BY HIS SISTER THAT HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL AND THAT HE WAS DENING MINE SO I STOP TALKING TO HIM WHEN I WAS 6 MONTHS I FOUND OUT HTE OTHER GIRL WAS PREGNANT I TOLD HIM HE TOLD ME SHE WASNETN BUT SHE REALLY WAS HE TOLD ME HE DIDNT WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH MY SON AND TO GO TO HELL ME N HIM

ON JANUARY 8 2008 AT 153 AM I GAVE BIRTH TO A BEUTIFUL BABY BOI AFTER 21 HOURS OF LABOR MY MOMMY N SISTER WHERE IN THE DELIEVERY ROOM WIHT ME MY MOM CUT THE CORD OF MY SON

NOW I HAVE A ONE MONTH BABY THAT I LOVE TO DEATH HE DOSENT NEED HIS DAD HE HASENT EVEN MEET HIM MY SON HAS MY LAST NAME AND IT SEEM SOO RITE

I LOVE MY SON YOSHUAH AIN CARRILLO

JENNIFER

Its not all bad being a single mother

i got pregnant july of 2007 i was hurt and mad at myself because i had plan on going to college and doing something with my life. i had to put all my dreams and college life on hold for a while. i was not afraid to tell the father of my unborn that i was expecting. we were together since 2003 and like all releationships we have had our ups and downs but at the end of the day we made it work because we knew that we wanted to be with one another.

he was excited and told me that the choice was mine what i wanted to do because he knew that i wanted to go to school and find a path of my own so one day when i did make the choice to have a family, i would be ready and at a point in my life where i was content. i made the choice to keep my son and i am happy that i did me and my boyfriend are doing great.

i had to stop working and to make sure that we have every thing for our child is working to jobs so that our bills will not get to far behind. he has really step up and prove that he is ready to take on the journey ahead of us. my family and friends are very supportive of us. i am planning to go back to school in jan. 2009 for Human services working with youth and tennage mothers.

we are awaiting the arrival of our son in a few weeks and we are both excited and happy about what we have created together.

My story is to encourage young mothers and fathers that everything is not bad and that there is some positive things going on in the world and being a teenage mother or father is not the end of the world. you just have to be ready and willing to hold your part of the deal and if your friend or so called lover bails out on you, remember that God will not put one through anything that they cannot bear.

Be good and thankful! God bless

Ashley

pregnant

Where do i start... at 18 I met a guy...robert was his name...he was just supposed to be a summer fling....but like always, things don't go as planned....I got pregnant...just outta high school...and he already had a baby on the way with another girl....

well at first we talked about abortion....but once i heard that heart beat...i couldn't do it....He threatened to break up with me...and honestly i thought twice about keeping her....well i kept her....i love my lil girl to death....but my pregnancy was horrible....i gained just ten pounds....and she weighed just over 5 lbs....but march 12,2005 was the best day of my life...

As for her father...well i tried to make things work...but when my daughter was just seven months....he was expecting another....so eventually after too many times of heart ache i gave up....Then i met Fred....he swept me off my feet....Nevaeh loved him...and i felt complete....We started sleeping together right away....not using protection of any kind....

we were good up until november of 2007....I became pregnant...he seemed excited....but a couple weeks later he broke up with me....no reason....just one day didn't wanna be with me....he even went as far as to changing his phone number....i was devastated... i kept thinking about my past and how i was alone once again...and pregnant....Its hard...with one lil one...imagine two....but i gotta be strong for my lil ones....

what hurts the most is....going to appointments alone...and just the embarassment....Two guys and neither one of them took responsibility....Robert is now married with three kids and another on the way...and hardly sees Nevaeh.... Fred... well we talk but he is seeing other girls....and its hard...because i Love fred....

But to all u young girls who think it can't happen...think again.... i am now 21 and going on two kids...with two different father...and SINGLE...yea they may promise to be there....but like most promises...they get broken....

Just think before u act....

mandie

My Daughter

hello. my name is skye and i also have another story on here about me when i was pregnant. well, alot has changed. i had to end up leaving my baby's father, which is pretty much the opposite of all the other stories w/ the father leaving the mother. my ex was my world, or so i thought.

we were both young, 18 when we got together. i was 19 when i was pregnant. he was absolutely wonderful during my pregnancy, the best even. but in "the real world", he was not so great. he went from job to job to job, not supporting me the way i needed. i worked up until 2 days before i had my daughter. he basically screwed up too many times, and i didn't want that for not only me, but my child. so, knowing how hard it would be, i left. and yes, i had the support of my family but basically it was my baby and me.

she is now 14 months old and i am in a relationship w/ my soul mate. he has no children of his own but he is the best father. i have found a man, not a boy, to spend the rest of my life with. and my daughter loves him, they are so great together.

i know how lucky i am.

skye

For Sophie Mirelle

I found out I was pregnant in 2007 and my boyfriend wanted me to have an abortion. I said no and we broke up.

I delivered a beautiful baby girl, Sophie Amber, on January 20th 2008. She is 2 weeks old now and everything is going great. I live with my mom, dad, and my sister and they have been great. My sister takes her at night and my mom helps me with her during the day.

Sophie is a really easy baby and I know I can raise her to be a kind and happy woman. She already has my heart in her tiny hands!

I am 25 and I am a single, happy, mother.

Sharlene