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its hard ; but im making it

well it all started for me when i moved from my moms house to my dads house. i was only 14 at the time and i met this guy who i thought was the best guy in the world and that nobody could compare to him. we dated for a little over a year and we were having sex, but a couple times he would just pull out and say you cant get pregnant if i pull out. so we just kept having sex and then i miss my period and start having morning sickness and i was tired all the time, i was freaking out i didnt know what to do. so i told my sister the whole story and she got me a pregnancy test i took 3 all positive. so i finally went to the doctor and yea i was pregnant. when i told my dad he kicked me out of the house, i told my mom she pretty much disowned me and acted like i wasnt her child. so all i had was my sister and matt (my boyfriend). matt told me i could move in with him till we found a new place to live he was so happy about the baby at first. but after a couple months i found out that he was cheating on me and saying that he never got me pregannt that i was lying about ever sleeping with him. so we broke up and i moved in with my sister. matt went kinda crazy when i moved out said all he wanted was me and to have a perfect family with the baby. he started stalking me and showing up at my sisters house. he finally stopped after my sisters husband had a talk with him. i went into labor on June 2 2009 and had a beautiful baby girl it was a 23 hour labor and i thought i wsa going to die lol but i made it through that..since ive had my baby matt has not came to see her, hasnt tried to call me and see how she was doing or anything. i have 2 jobs living with my sister and im going to go back to school as a sophmore this year. my life has changed so much in these past ten months but its starting to get better. ive met this great guy hes 17 and he loves my little girl weve been dating for a month now and were thinking about moving in with each other. other people may look at me and think that ive ruined my life but i dont regret any of the decisions i made, and i love my little girl with all of my heart.

Courtney

MY SO PERFECT LIFE...

HI. MY NAME IS ARACELI I AM 16 YR.. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND HE IS 20 AND WE HAVE A BEAUTIFUL BABY BOY. HE IS ALMOST 7 MONTHS. I TOOK A PREGNANCY TEST AT A CHINESE RESTAURANT. I TOOK 3 TEST. MY BOYFRIEND WAS HAPPY BUT NERVOUS. WHILE I WAS SCARED..MY PARENTS KICK ME OUT ON JULY 13 2008 THAT WAS THE DAY I TOLD THEM I WAS PREGNNAT ON MY BROTHERS BIRTHDAY HE HAD TURN 18 YR. AT 8 PM MY MOTHER IN LAW AND SISTER IN LAW ARRIVE TO MY APARTMENTS TO PICK ME UP. WHEN I GOT TO MY BOYFRIENDS HOUSE I COULDN'T STOP CRYING. AND I DIDN'T. AT 12 AM I HEARD MY MOTHER IN L;AW CALLING MY NAME. WHEN I CAME OUT OF MY BOYFRIENDS ROOM I SAW MY DADDY CRYING AND HE CAME CLOSER AND HUG ME. I REMEMBER HIS WORDS "EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE ALRIGHT"..HE WAS DRUNK MY COUSIN BROUGHT HIM. MY DADDY HUG ME AND MY BOYFRIEND AND SAY OUR NEW FAMILY. I BEEN OOING TO SCHOOL I AM GOING TO START MY JUNIOR YEAR..I HAVE ALL THE SUPPORT OF MY FAMILY. I AM TRYING MY HARDEST TO BE A GOOD MOM AND I AM. MY BABY IS STARTING TO SAY DADDA ALL THE TIME. HE LOOKS AT HIS DADDY WHEN HE DOES. I AM LIVING WITH MY PARENTS RIGHT NOW BUT I AM MOVING WITH MY BOYFRIEND. WE LOVE EACH OTHER OUR LOVE IS GROWING EVERYDAY LIKE OUR LITTLE BOY.I PROVE TO SO MANY PEOPLE THAT I COULD BE SOMEONE IN THE FUTURE FOR MY LITTLE BOY. I AM NOT A FAILURE JUST BECAUSE I AM A PROUD TEENAGE MOTHER.IF I COULD DO IT EVERYBODY CAN TOO.

Araceli

trying without no help

this is how it all started i ma 17 but when i got pregant i was 16 i thought i was in love the guy was the love of my life or so i thought... we ended up having sex and i got pregant i didn't know so i ended up losing the babi.. i was so upset when i found out so i told my boyfriend that i wanted 2 try to have another one but when we were ready... but i was in love and i had him use no glove and got pregant again and now im 4 months pregant and we no longer speak he has deined my baby and he has not helped with a dam thing!!!! I work three dam jobs and buss my ass can barely supportt myself so i get the thoughts how will i be able 2 take care of the baby but i know its going to be hard but i made ny bed i have to lay in it now!!!! I still go to school i'm working on getting my high school dipole but who knows what going to happend next sure didn't think this was going to be it!!!!

Araceli

thought it would be a perfect ending ..

Well, where do i begin.. lol im 17, turning 18 in 6 months.. so i guess it all began for me when i moved in with my brother in seattle. I left my dads because all we did was fight about how he hated chris (my long term boyfriend of 2 yrs) and so on. so i left. shortly after leaving me and chris broke up, for so mnay reason, oh so mnay. The trust and love were shot to hell from him cheating on me, all the deciving, and even tho it had been months since the last time, i still couldnt trust him. It got to the point that i was uneasy just if he had girls numbers in his phone and if he hungout with any, i hated it because i thought he would cheat again and all his family thought i was this crazy controlling gf because they never heard the real story. Point blank.
We broke up, i went to disneyland early may and came back to find out i was pregante. Hadnt slept with anyone for a long time, like month terms and for the past two years it was just my boyfriend expet for a fling last summer when we broke up, but nothing to cause this. The doctors in january told me i couldnt get pregante so chris thought it was okay to try and pull out from then on, little did i know that our little anniversery in febuary left me more than with a broken heart, but i was now 14 weeks pregante and not showing or any symptoms.
Me and chris got right back together, he moved to seattle and moved in. we started buying clothes. found out its a girl and both went out to get jobs.
weeks are going bye and he fighted with me everyday about the littlest of things, like getting up to get ready, or getting up to go to work, or even going. he had no self modivation at all and i felt like i had to take care of him as well as my pregante self. I spent three weeks stressed out and at the point to where he made me cry each time when i finally made him leave yesterday. I prayed all night he wouldnt actually go and just grow up and take some reasposnibility for his life. We got into such a big fight that he said he hopes i die giving labor. ill neverforget that moment or what he has said to me. Although he feels like the worse person ever to me, somehow i feel like i need him to get through this :( i have all this support around me but yet i feel more alone than ever.
he would talk to my belly every night and kiss her goodnight, and now for the past two nights sleeping alone in the bed i havnt been able to actually fall right asleep. Its so difficult because half of me wants to just take him back for everything like i always do, but i feel pathedic, but im lonley. all the close friends i have ever had have screwed me over so i have nobody close my age or anything to talk to. its unbearable. if you can relate for know how to get through it plase email me, im out of options and scared out of my mind.

Kelsey

it's not the end of the world

I met my now ex-boyfriend when I was one month shy of my 17th birthday we were both working at mc donalds, he was in Juvie when we first met but I didn't care if fell head over heels for him and within a few weeks he was telling me he loved me and I believed him and of course I loved him to he was my first boyfriend and My first love.
after a month of Dating we had sex for the first time while he was on a pass this made me fall even more in love with him, he got out of Juvie and i moved in with him and his dad but we couldnt hadle living together so I moved home and we barely talked.
he ended up breaking up with me and it crushed my world i couldn't eat I couldn't breath all i could do is cry i had a lump in my throat it went on this way for a month untill valintines day when he called and said he missed me and wanted me back I was so in love with him so i took him back.
He moved in with me and my parents and we continued our sexuall relationship but within a few weeks he was back in Juvie, so he would come home on visits but as he was in Juvie I met a new older guy and we started talking and i fell kinda for this guy to and made the mistake of cheating on my then boyfriend and a few weeks later I found Out i was pregnant I was excited My bf and I wanted a baby and when i told him he was so happy he got a job and our future looked bright but after he got out of jail he went back to Jail and it was becoming all to much to handle and he was startening to denying my baby so finally about a month before my due date i broke up with him because I wanted a better life for me and for my son so i broke up with him and started dating the other guy i knew,
I had my son on January 7th 2007 and he didn't even come see my baby or sighn he birth certificate but my bf i was with (and still am with) fell in love with my son and sighned his birth certificate,
My ex still denies my son and doesnt come around but his mom takes my son once in a while and today is a happy healthy 2yr old with a 1yr old baby brother I love my boys and yes it is hard being a teen momm i wouldn t change it for the world

Amanda