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I was sixteen and was dating a guy for about two moths. we decided to have have sex for the first time. well the condom broke.. when we realized what had happened it was to late and we both started freaking out.. the father wanted me to get an abortion. i was dead set on it but after awhile and telling my mom i couldnt do it. while i was pregnant the father was not really there for me at all, his son was four days old and he had a new girl friend could go to movies with her but couldnt help buy formula or diapers. after three months he realized what he was missing out on.. we are now currently trying to work on a friendship and maybe more. we rushed things before and dont want to make that mistake again. i love my son just wish i would have waited so i would be able to give him more.

lee

A Father but not his Biological

I Been dating my Boyfriend edwin for about 1 year and a couple months. We were having problems so i decided to break up with him. In the process i met this good looking guy name Xaviar (which was not his real name) and we eventually had sex. The first time we had sex the condom broke and I was determine to get the morning after pill but ended up not getting it... I promised myself long ago No abortions for me. We were still seeing each other then one day out the blue he just disappears without saying anything to me. I had his number but he never answered the phone. During that month I got back with my boyfriend my period was a week late so i went to the doctors and found out i was pregnant and i told my boyfriend the situation. He knows he is not the father but he is willing to step up and be there for the baby no matter what. I told the baby's biological father that i was pregnant and he hung up the phone on me. Even though i tried to get in contact with him i found out he changed his number and that Xavier wasnt his real name and i didnt know his last name. So I havent seen him since. I Dont know what i was thinking then but im happy with the decision i made and i am extremely happy i still have my loving boyfriend and that he hasnt left me. thank god for the good people of this world.. we are going to start a family no matter what.

Jennifer

two mummys.

Hey. my name is cheyenne. i am 16 to this current day. 7 months ago, back when i was 15, i'd been with my boyfriend for about 2 weeks. And then he took my viginity. after that we had sex everyday after school, because his mum didn't mind us doing it, as long as we used protection. But after a month of just hardcore sex, me and my best friend, serahr, have got a lot closer. My boyfriend didn't really like that because he was quite obssesive.so i suggested a break. 2 days later i found out i was pregnant. i didn't know how to go about this. but i did know i want to keep the baby. also my feelings for the father had just gone. well, infact, my feelings for all men had just gone. I told serahr what happened and how i felt and she said she'd be there for me. Me and serahr spent more time together and she was helping me cope with the stress. She told me that she loved me and wanted to be with me. I was really happy that she asked me. So in two month, my baby is due and me and my amazing girlfriend will have a baby boy. the father said that ' i dont want anything to do with you lesbians, i wouldn't want my children to be brought up by lesbians, because you'll make the boy gay/ girl a lesbian'. so now, when i see him around town, i just ignore him.
Many thanks
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Chey

mystery men

Hey. my name is megan. i have just recently turned 16. Since i was 14 i have had a different sexual partner every 2-3 months. It was quite a normal thing, cause i mean, all my friends said that sex was fun. one time, me and my best friend, jasmine, went to a house party and slept with 4 other guys. Last November though was dreadful. My brother threw his 18th birthday up in hythe hall. so me and a couple of my mates tagged along. My boyfriend didn't come though because him and my brother don't get along. But i made a horrible mistake, and shagged two other guys. my boyfriend hasn't found out yet. and i hope he doesn't because we had sex the next day. it was amazing. except from the bit where he cummed in my eye. But two weeks later, i was late for my period so i took the test and it came up positive. i told my boyfriend straight away. he didn't know what to say, but is pretty happy if i want to keep it. But i obviously told him that it was his. but, you see, im not sure if it is his. what happens if i pop out a black kid, because the night of the party, i had sex with a coloured boy. and i dont want to ruin my longest relationship now, even though i dont even like him in that way anymore...
any suggestions what to do?
thanks for reading this.
x

Megan

mommy of 2

I am a proud SINGLE mommy of 2 beautiful babies...My princess...who is my oldest...Nevaeh Nikole...is going on 4...and my son...Aidyn Isaiah....is going on 7 months...I'm a single mom...and personally wouldn't change a thing about it...Don't get me wrong...its not always sunshine and rainbows...I have my days...But just knowin that i have 2 lil ones that llok up to me...i Try my best...I have great family support from my mom and brothers...My kids go without nothing...I'm only 22 years old...my kids have 2 diffrent fathers...or should i say sperm donors...Both have moved on and married other girl...and both have more children...They don't scknowledge my kids...which is fine with me...I am both mommy and daddy...I just want you young girls oou there to know that...If he doesn't wanna be with you...you CAN do it without him...A baby is the greatest thing ever...I thought both times of abortion...i just thought i couldn't be a mommy....But in the end it was all worth it...I had the worst pregnancy with my daughter...Her SD didn't even bother with me...i was only 18...just outta high school...i thought my life was over....but i kept her and she came into this world 3 weeks early weighing a lil over 5 pounds....So when i became pregnant with my son...i figured that my lil one needed me...so i didn't get depressed when it didn't work out...I grew up instead...I still live wtih my mom...and she helps out a lot...I work for a school district...I have paid off my own car...and support my kids....sometimes being a SINGLE mom is better for...

amanda