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didnt see it coming

im 17years old and 7months pregos(: iwas with the babydady for a year. everthing was going good when we turned 3months together ifound out he hadd too move too florida iwas devistated! we madee so many promises too each other because we new that we were inlove. iwas commited too wait for him. around june which was thee summer he came back too visit on our 8months anniversity thats when our little guy was concieved lol..just two days before he left back.. later on around october ifound out iwas 13weeks pregos we were bith in shock butt happy because we wanted a family butt not so soon.. soonly when we found out iwas pregos he started changing and when ihit 5months he admited too me he didnt lovee'me anymore. iwas devistated and in tears and up too this point istill find my self crying. we dont talk any longer butt he is still involved in his sons life.. butt ijust wish we were still together because he changed my life. ilived unhappy and hated life up too when imet him. he changed everthing in my life. and now ifeel exactly how iuse too before imet him.

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Mommys Angel

Im 17, i was 17 when i got pregnant with my baby. My fiance and i started dating in july an only 2 months later he got my name tattoo on his chest, then 3 months later we started trying to have a baby. we got engaged bout 5 months in to our relationship. We started fighting bcuz i wasnt getting pregnant, it was stressing us out. He was doing drugs an i thought i could change him if i gave him the baby he wanted. i loved him more then anything an i would do anything for him to reach his dreams he told me he wanted. Things got really rough an we started to hit eachother. he lived with his grand parents an i was there everyday an stayed with him every weekend. we were like married an 17. It became to much an i broke it off to show him i meant he needed to change. well he got a new girlfriend. I found out i was pregnant! i didnt tell anyone at first. i tried to get him back but we only lasted one day before he choose drugs. i told my bestfriend an then him that i was pregnant. i was so scared i was gonna be alone an then i started to think i could do it, have my baby an be a good mom. Then i started to love the idea an i loved my baby. I started bleeding black blood an i went to the ER. I learned i was having a miscarriage, i called my ex an let him know an he was with his new girlfriend, i could hear he was upset but couldnt think about it when he was with her. I was so upset an could bearly think about anything, the doctors were asking me a million questions. I didnt know what to do, i was livin with my bestfriend my dad didnt know i was pregnant an my ex just wasnt there. Going thru the pain alone was horrible, i had my bestfriend, friends, an family but i didnt have my ex who should have hurt like i did, but he covered it up with drugs. I named my babyboy Westen terry hamilton, (terry hamilton after his daddy). I got me an his dad cross necklaces in westens memory. There isnt a day that goes by that i dont miss him or think about him, everyday i wish i could have him back. My mom says god took him because he knew neither of us we ready, we werent in a happy place, an he was trying to give us a chance to turn around an do better for our lives. What he didnt know is i loved him i was ready. I took this experiance an are trying to do better with my life, an the dad is doing worse an using drugs to cover his life, we dont talk anymore. This is my story an i wanted to share it to show teenagers arent ready to start families an things change in moments. I love my son with all my heart an he will always be my first child. Mommy loves yuu Westen terry hamilton. R.i.p My angel</3

Heather

20 and on my second Baby

Hey my names nikita... Im 20 years old and have a 13month old son named marcus.. and am now currently pregnant with my second baby (a girl) both babies are with the same father who loves his boy to bits but doesnt want anything to do with his daughter we had, had a on off relationship for the last 2years... and now its over for good.. Cant say im looking forward to having two babies under the age of 2 being only 20 but im sure ill cope somehow... Its scary to be a young mum and its even scarier to be doing it all alone... well without the father of the children or anyone really there... I do have a wonderful bf currently and he is very supportive which helps alot as he doesnt mind me talking with him about the children :) Good luck to all those young mummies out there

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Nikita

My Birthday Gift!

The day before my birthday i thought i could be pregnant. I took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. The only thing that actually scared me was that the guy that i was pregnant by wasn't my boyfriend or somebody i was in love with. He was a friend though and just the thought of telling him gave me chills up my spine! That same day i told him and he was just as shocked as i was! The next day was my birthday so i went to get it confirmed. Even though i had already known, knowing that it was for sure i cried. I didn't talk to him almost my whole pregnancy and whenever my beautiful baby Maaliyah was born he saw her for the first time and she was already a week old! Now he's involved with her but unfortunately i'm pregnant again but by someone i've been on and off with for about 7 years now. it's gonna be hard but now i just want to do the best i can for my family and that's what keeps me strong and going. Even though i'm young as mother i have matured and will continue to do whatever i need to do to keep a smile on my daughter's face.

Marina

My Beautiful Suprise!!

Hello Im Amelia Im From Manchester (uk) i was 14 when i got pregnant and 15 when i gave birth i am now nearly 17 and my baby boy is 15 months old.
He wasnt planned and his dad was 5 years older than me, he was my beautiful suprise though! His dad hasnt been on the scene in any way since i was pregnant. I did my gcse's and finished school with really good gcse's, i did it all on my own while i was exhausted with a very small baby :( Things where quite hard but totally worth it! People doubted me and though i would fail as a mum, but i proved them SO wrong! My Mum supported me and loves my boy to bits! i am currently at college training to be a midwife and i cant wait! My boy was the best thing that ever happened to me and i am not joking he never cried!! he was so good and i was so lucky, i feel as though its me and him against the world, i am very independant and dont accept help easily. I dont knwo what money situations are in America but over here you can claim child benefit which is 60 pound a week, child benefit which is 80 pound a month and income support which is 40 pound a week. I have my own house and even though i have a part time job i get most of my rent paid for (£550) per month. I have kept all my friends and they usually come round to see me and my baby, i go out once every 2 months partying but apart from that im never without my baby. I am sick of teen pregnancy being badly publicised, yes it shouldnt be promoted but there are some of us that are good mums and maybe we should get some credit for a change instead of comments and looks! I hope you are all very happy with your babies and i wish you all so much luck!!!

Amelia x

Amelia