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trying....

so my boyfriend and me had fallen deep for eachother and we have decided that the next step for us would be a child..
so we have been trying for four months and each time its more heartbreaking..
sometimes i feel like i am.. but than here comes my period.

but this month is diffrent.. my breast are a d as they are and hurt from time to time.. and now they are a dd and hurt so bad i cant stand up without a bra.. this is day two after my missed period and i took one test the day of my period that night was supposed to come.. negative.. so tonight i will be trying the test again.. i have a really huge feeling that i am but ... you never know



the night i took my test my bf was crying bc it was negative.. im just as upset but i have to be the strong one.. and its really hard to try to hold in my sadness and help him as well..

we have switched to a healthy diet and no drinking and we have sex every day for two weeks during go time.. we watch my cervix fluid and started taking ov. tests..


im just scared that i wont be able to ..
i love him so much and if we cant .. we cant and i will stil love him no matter what.. but a baby would be perfect.. its just a good place and time for us.. we have two extra rooms in our home.. that just feel empty and sad...
i know all about the horrible part of children and babies my mom decided whie i was in high school to have another baby and say hey let her take care of it so she wont want one ..

well i do want one .. more than ever..

so tonights the night that i see if i am.. hopefully i am..

to everyone else who is trying..
just try not to care as much.. it hurts alot less if u say things like oh man my period comes this weekend and we are going on a camping trip darn it.. or something like that.. bc it just makes it less painfull for your other half..

amber

My scared hubby

I was married in may,1995 when I was about 23 years old. My husband loved me a lot. It was our sort-of love marriage.
My husband was very much eager to have a baby. He just did't have patience! He waited for a month..negative result!..then the second..it was soon too much for him. As we are Indian-Muslims,he beleived in Darga's and stuff! One day, when I was in my sister's home,he told me to get ready to go to one of the dargahs. I obeyed him. When I went to change my clothes,I found that I had got my periods.
As we weren't supposed to go to any such places during mentruation time; I told him that I couldn't come. He couldn't control hinself and started crying! I was too confused as I loved my husband a lot!
My elder-sis and he shared a good friendship. She consoled him and quiten him.
Then in the third month of our marriage,I finally got pregnant!
I had my first daughter in 1996 and named her Moina. I have 2 kids after her. A daughter and then a son.
Anyone can imagine how much we both love our kids. Me and my husband,like any other parents can do just anything for our children.
My husband was the one who most wanted us both to be married and now you know how much he wanted a child!
You know it's not always the woman who craves to have a strong relationship or be a parent!
My first daughter is 14 this year and we hope the best for all three of them!

Sameena Saleem

Mistakes Happen

You young ladies are to young to be having kids.I understand that u think you in love with your high school sweet heart ,but your chances of being with him forever one in a million. A couple a real men might step up and take the plate and be a real father.You never know who your real love is so don't give it up to just anybody wait until your married and ready because with every mistake you make there is a cosequence you have to suffer.Remember that.To all the young ladies out there who thinks he won't love you if you don't give it up he never loved you anyway,but I LOVE YOU even though I don't know you.

Leah B.

Such A Surprise

Im only 14 and had my beautiful baby girl two weeks before my 14th birthday. My ex-boyfriend of eleven months didnt say. But the only fear i had was having to tell my mom. i had a home pregnancy test, and left it on her dresser with a note. It said ' Mom, i think i might be pregnant ' and she sure enough called me crying. But now i dont regret anything really except having to drop out of school. My baby Reece is absolutely amazing. She is my everything! i may be young but you learn to grow up FAST!

Kaitlin

Christmas Surprise

My story was my worst nightmare, something i hoped would not happen till later when i was ready. On the 10th of December i had an appointment to get myself on birthcontrol. My boyfriend and i had been together almost two years and had never use contraception and hadn't gotten pregnant, yet. I thought it was because he was a heavy liquor drinker, so when he decided he wasn't going to drink anymore, i made the appointment. My appointment wasn't for another month and we just had those urges. After haveing a normal pap-smer, I was given my pills and was told to wait till my period started befor i start taking them. That was the 10th. I waited and waited and since it was close to christmas, our family had a lot to do. But my period was always at the back of my mind. Befor i knew it, it was christmas and my period was no were in sight. Two days later on the 27th of Dec., i decided to tell my boyfriend i hadn't started yet. We told his mom and then when tot the dollar store to get a cheap pregnancy test. I get home and everyone is there. His mom and dad, grandmother, aunt, first child, and his cousins who i have known longer than i have him, were all waiting for us to get back. I took the test and within two seconds, the positive line showed up. I was shocked just standing in my bathroom looking at the positive test not knowing what to do next. So, i walk out and say two word to my family "I'm pregnant", then fainted. When i came too all i could see was that positive test in my mind. Then i could see the father of my child in hysterics, literally jumping for joy with all the family gathered around me to make sure im not dead! I get up, shaken but okay, and call my daddy to tell him of his new late christmas gift, a grandchild. I'm almost 6 months now and wouldn't change one detail on how we found out our little Sophia existed!!

Priscilla