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The Best Birthday Present ever!

My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 1 yr. We are high school sweethearts. We had been trying to get pregant for about almost 2 yrs and nothing, all we would get was neg after neg, it really got upsetting for us. I went to my doctor to see what was wrong or if there was a better way to get pregnant faster and they said that I might not be able to have kids because I was on the depo shot and it really messed up my blood pressure my periods and made me gain so much weight, I gained 80 pounds in a yr. So after hearing that news it just bummed me out knowing that my body was not able to handle anymore stress. so long story short we kept trying and well 6 days after my 21st My husband and I found out we were 6 weeks pregnant!!!!!

Tina

Tina

Hoping for a early christmas gift

Hi and and husband have been together for five years now. And we never used anying protection. And i never got pregnant. I went to the doctor and she told me ii was not ovualating right. And she gave me meds for that. 6 months go bye and im still not pregnant. Seem like every month we come close to being pregnant. But always a neg! And everyone around me have kids or are pregnant. And i find myself crying and depress. I dont like hangin around people with kids or pregnant. Because i cant control my feelings. But here it is 1st of Dec. And im having signs of implatation bleeding. I hope santa sent us a big gift.

Courtney

JUST BEGINNING

HI there me and my husband have been married nearly 3 months and we have just decided to start trying for a baby, he already has a six year old daughter so we would love to have a little boy but i will be chuffed with a girl just the same, ive been on the pill for nearly 6 years so im hoping this wont affect my chances of getting pregnant quickly too much. i cant wait to be a mummy its all ive wanted for a very long time but wanted to wait untill we were married and had a stable income first. ive started taking folic acid and have a doctors app in a week to get the low down, although reading all these stories has been a big help, wish me luck and i hope its all going well to everyone else who is trying, will let you know how it goes!!!!!

VICTORIA

OMG!!! Please be Soon!!

I have been thru all the negative testing and feeling like i am pregnant. Me n my bf have been trying for sum time now and i really hope we will get pregnant soon..maybe itll be everyones xmas present :) but neways alot of ppl in my family want me to have a baby soon. my sis wants to b an auntie and pretty much everyone else doesnt think its a bad idea...im geting positive feedback about me & my having a baby. Not to mention that my sis-in-law just had a baby so of course there is sum pressure to have one but its not bad pressure. i want a boy and so does my bf but we will be happy with what God gives us..i cant wait til i get to see that little pink line on the stick...i wish everyone luck with there hopes of pregnancy and those who are already pregnant!!!!!!

Missy

Baby fever?

I really need to get this off my chest. My husband is very tired of hearing abou it.

I want a baby. I want to have a child very badly.

11 of my friends are pregnant or just had their baby, now i don't want to get pregnant because all my friends are doing it. I wanted to hve a child right after I got married, at 18,1 month after i graduated high school, but my husband convinced me to wait. Which ultimetally I think was a good idea. I am now in college and desperaetally wanting a baby. I have 3 more semesters to go untill i graduate, and i dont want to wait.

I understand that waiting till i graudate will be better and easier for me but i really dont want to. for the longest time i was very concerned with what my family will think of that. ultimetally i can to realize that i am 20 years old my husband is 24 and if we want to have a baby it is only our opinions that matter, that i shouldn't be worried about hwat any one else will think. that is we want a baby then we should have a baby.

Both my husband and i want kids, he wants 2 i want 3 but we will get to that desicion after we have 2. He wants to wait untill i am done with college, which is tough for me. as i wanted a child at 18 and i have foreced myself to wait, but i just dont want to wait anymore.

Any advice on how to put these feelings of baby fever on hold.

I know that it would be best to wait till i graduate. I don't plan on doing anything with my degree i am only getting it becuase my family excepts it of me. I am getting a bachalor of science in business and economics. This degree will not secure me a better paying job. I like the job that i have now and would like to keep it, so the degree is not going to better me in any way, i hate going to college, i feel like it has put my life on hold. But it would be nice to get it done and over with.

I was just hoping to get some advice on how to not focus on this so much. Everytime i see one of my firends with their children or pregnant i feel like i am going to cry and in many cases i have to excuse myself and go up to my room or into the closest bathroom and cry a few tears before pulling myself back togeather.

My husband really doesn't want to talk about it any more becuase i just get upset. im not sure who to talk to about this anymore becuase no one wants to talk with me about it anymore.

Advice?

Erica