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Scared, but I know that whatever happens everythin

I'm 19 years old and the baby girl in my family. My parents expect so much out of me because I'm supposed to be their one child that surpasses everyone's ambitions in life. I'm currently attending college in pursuit of my degree in nursing. I'm happy yet afraid to be pregnant. My Fiance is extremely excited and very up to being a father. I feel disappointed in myself because here I am a 19 year old, how am I supposed to support a child with a job that doesn't pay enough and a Fiance who is more into getting a new car then saving money. I know that everyone will be hard on me because no one wanted me to turn out like my sister who had a child at 19. I know GOD will take care of me and the child I just might have. I'm just scared no one will support me and I know support is important in having a child. I hope for the best in my future endeavors and I ask for everyone's prayers. I'm really scared, I just need some advice.

Ricky

Horrified

Is anyone else horrified by the 15, 16, 17 year old unmarried girls discussing how much they want children!!!

You are a child. Get an education first so you are able to love and support your child in the manner it deserves. I find it very offending to see someone so young throwing away their innocence. You are a child, enjoy being a child. You should be thinking about what you are going to do with the rest of your life. Get on birth control and use a condom, two forms of birth control at all times. Also in response to the girl with the SDT, if you are not responsible enough to get tested and only have sex with a partner that has been tested, you are not responsible enough to be a parent!!! Your child could be born with an STD next time!! Please enjoy being little girls. If you must have sex protect yourselves.

Jen

Bad Feeling

I am only 17 yr and will be 18 on 9/10. But I keep having this feeling I cant get pregnant. I was pregnant back in November but in December I lost it. Well my Fiancé and I wanted to try again. So we did and it has been 5 or 6 months now and still nothing and after a while I started to get this feeling I could not get pregnant.. I just want to know if I could go to doctor and found out if I can or not or am I to young to find out?

Jen

Pray

To torrie and all the others trying confused scared and expecting just PRAY let go and let GOD seriously just keep praying and god is listening. find and seek peace and refuge with god you have been trying since sept 07 i have been trying for the past 6-7 YEARS so i know what it feels like but im letting go now and letting god ive tried on my own and its not working only gods know what he has planned so just pray and talk to god.

freddy

TTC Since Sept 07

Hi,
My husband and i have been ttc since Sept. 07. We have had no luck. I am on fertility medicine, called Clomid. I went on it in May 08 and noticed pregnancy signs 5 dpo. I was cramping and my breast and nipples hurt like crazy. I took several hpt test and got negative, but used the early pregnancy test strips on June the fifth and there was a faint positive line. My OB said that the symptoms seemed to be a sure sugn, but my period showed up on 6-11. By 6-14 I ws brought to the ER for Very Heavy menstrual bleeding, and they did a pelvic exam and blood test to see if i had misscarried. According to the doctor, i wasn't pregnant. I don't know what to do. We have been ttc for a long while and nothing seems to work. I have also been using Clearblue Easy fertiltiy monitor since May 08. No Luck either way, Please help.

Torrie