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3 miscarriages

Hi, my name is flora i am 33 years old and i just had my 3rd miscarriage.

I did dnc on three of them.My 1st and 3rd mis.was a chromosomal problem.They did different tests to see the cause of it,but everything came up normal

the only thing that my doctor mentioned is one gene homocysteine and she gave me 4 mg folic acid.she does'nt think that is the cause of my mis.

I would like to have another child but i am afraid.

flora

so hard

hey i am zara i am 19 years of age. i was 9 weeks pregnant, but was showin very fast.! my family didnt know and i had not been with the dad of my wee baby.

at the start i was in shock at thinkin i was going to have this wee baby on my own. then my family had found out and told me i am not on my own........... i was then all excited 4 this wee baby to love me..!!!

the dad was told but he didnt want nothing to do with me or the baby, he then came around and we talked and he would be there for the baby.i found out on the 24 feb, but couldnt get it into my head. my family then started to notice and had asked me. so they all knew and was going to sort out doctors.

the day before my doctors appointment i started to bleed. i had been rushed into hospital and they took another test and felt my stomach and sent me home and told me to come back inthe morning for a scan. the bleeding had stopped.!!!

the next morning i was bleeding really bad but no clots. they took me for a scan and then took my blood at told me to go home and rest and they will phone me later and let me no how i was and my baby........i thought this wasnt right.

then at tea time that day they rang and told me i had lost it.!! i couldnt believe it, it had been another shock to me..i was really wantin it now and thought it would be a lovely thing to happen to anyone.

u dont think it would be as hard, cant believe i have lost this baby and i thought i would have good time watchin her/he grow up...
everything goes through my head, am i going to be able to want kids now. will i not be too scared to go through this all again. people say things happen 4 a reason but wat is the reason..??

Y does thing happen like this...??

just hopin who ever else is going through the same thing is keepin ok

zara mckeever

High Hopes

Hello my name is Melissa and i am 24,

It has now been two weeks since we lost our baby. This was our first pregnancy (unexpected) but still a great thing. It was two days after Christmas when we found out that i was pregnant it all seemed so unreal at first...reading the test that said positive...so i decided to take four more just to make sure since i had not gotten sick or anything like that. And all i remember is my fiance laying there with a smirk on his face (he was more excited than me at first)

We decided to let my parents and his parents know since we figured we were at least 8 weekes along. Both families were extremely supportive and excited ...but his father did warn us about having a miscarriage since he and his wife had had two before...we shrugged it off not thinking anything of it (it was still in the back of our minds but we were just to happy to care)

So we went to our first appt on Feb 1 where we got to see out beautiful baby move and hear the heartbeat...it was the most amazing feeling in the world we were on top of the world. So a few weeks later passed and we continued on with our lives. I went to work one Wednesday and just had the worst cramps ever...i shrugged them off just thinking it was like growing pains or something but when i got home and noticed blood...

i got worried my fiance told me to just lie down and take it easy but something felt wrong so i went into the emergency room where they decided to do an ultrasound...when they did it they did not see a heartbeat so yes it was confirmed my feelings were right something definitely was not right with our baby.

i went in and had a d and c two days later since the pain was too much. like i said two weeks has gone by and it has been the longest most dreadful time of my life...my fiance and i fight all the time over petty things that we never fought about before everyone says that it would be a tough time but i would love for things to go back to the way they were before...

i know we love eachother and plan on trying again in a few months but i deeply feel for everyone who has gone through this.

Mlissa

Melissa

perdi a mi bebe

perdi mi primer embarazo tenia meses ... no me dijeron las causas era lmi primer bebe tengo 33 años y despues dde 7 meses estoy embarazada de nuevo... stoy muy asustada pues la experiencia fue muy fea... pero otra vez tengo la ilusion de ser mama

CRISTINA

I miss my baby.

Hello. I'm 16 years old. and i had a miscarriage about a week ago.

When i first found out i was pregnant I was so scared..I cried my eyes out. I am only 16 how can i be a mother..but my fears soon turned to happiness in a matter of mins. I grew an instant bond and love for my baby the second i saw my pregnancy test. I took 5 tests every single one said i was pregnant. So me and my boyfriends families were very supportive and we were ready to be parents in nine months..

When i was 5 weeks i was in walmart and started to get these horrible cramps and ran to the bathroom and i saw some blood..I was so scared I knew something was wrong with my baby...So i quickly called my family and my boyfriend and told them i was heading to the hospital..
i was already hysterical. When i got there the nurse told me it was going to be at least a hour wait!! My boyfriend yelled and said "Does it look like my girlfriend can wait..we think were losing our child you get us in there as soon as possible"
So after that i was checked in about 30 mins later.
The doctors and nurses were so slow and cold about everything. I was in the hospital for about five hours and I had know idea if my baby was okay..I was praying to God my baby was..I got an ultra sound and they made it seemed like it was ok..I got blood test and they didn't tell me anything that came back..

But after i was there for almost 6 hours..The doctor came in..and my heart was pounding..I could have lost my child..my life...I was in so much fear. But with the coldest most non caring voice the doctor said "Your not pregnant anymore..you lost your child" That was it he walked out. I was bawling my eyes out for hours. I got no sleep..It's so hard knowing my baby would have had it's first heart beat a few days ago if i would have not have lost it.
Yeah I may have only been 5 weeks but it was still my baby.
my child..my hopes and dreams..That i lost.
Its so hard to comprehend all of this..but i know someday i will have another and no it will never replace my first and i'll always remember my first child..
but time heals everything..

Good luck to anyone who has had a miscarriage. you are not alone.

Krista