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miscarriage

i didnt plan a pregnancy, but yet i felt different, my breasts were aching and i couldnt stop eating, and i couldnt stop eating galaxy chocolate bars either. i kept telling my partner that i thought i might be pregnant and he kept avoiding the subject, so anyway when my period didnt come obviously my fears were confirmed and i was pregnant. I kept trying to find the right time to tell my partner, but i was very quiet and moody, so he kept having a go at me, so i couldnt tell him. Anyway i told him eventually and he wasnt impressed, i cried A LOT and he just stayed quiet which men tend to do, anyway the pregnancy ended up being a little unwanted, i definately know that my partner didnt want it, but deep down i did want it, my head told me it wasnt the right time, and i know myself it wasnt the right time, but i think we could of make it work, anyway after about 2 weeks of some serious thinking, i started to bleed, i rang the hospital and they said there were no scan facilities cause it was a bank holiday, so i had to stay at home all weekend bleeding and in pain with nobody to help me, my partner bottles things up a lot, so he wasnt very supportive, i have went for a scan the week after and they confirmed that i had miscarried, and now my partner keeps shouting at me and snapping, which i am finding really hard to deal with at the moment, i know that its cause he feels guilty, he feels guilty cause he didnt want it, but he is reacting in the wrong way, i was very emotional at the time and still am as it has only been last week, i just find myself feeling very lonely, and all i want is for my partner to be supportive and talk to me, but as i said before he is expressing himself by bottling it up, which makes him snap at me, every night since i found out i was pregnant he has stressed at me in some way for no good reason. i dont know how i am suposed to deal with it.

isabelle

miscarriege

On the 17th April 08 I went to my doctor as i did a pregnancy test and it was positive and I missed period. My dr felt my stomach and said that i felt 3 months. I was happy. Then on the 3rd of May i had pink show so i rang my dr and she told me not to worry and rest. Of course i worried so went hospital they said all was fine so i went home. next morning had another show and went bk to hospital and they said i was fine. the next morning I had another show but i just stayed in bed. Later that evening i started to get cramps and bleed heavy with clots so i went hospital and i miscarried. We were very upset but my partner does not talk about it. I think it is because he knows it has affected me alot and doesnt want to upset me. It is very hard for me because i wanted this baby very very much. I feel empty and very sad but the doctor said my next pregnancy would be fine. I hope so but i do tend to worry now.

karen

still born loss

After finding out I was pregnant I so excited 2 days later I started to spot.. then I went to my obg and he told me it my cervic was still open so he put me on complete bed rest also I was having alot of pregnant sickness I lost abot 20 pounds in 2 months...after turning 12 weeks I was so excited I was not spoting any more and I was able to feed my baby at 20 weeks I ask my doctor if I could catch a plane for a family event and he said yeah it would be no risk he said every is okay...so i decided to go to florida (i think that was my worst mistake I have mad in my life) when I got to florida that same day I was in the hospital having vaginal bleeding the doctor there told me my cervic had open a little and he recommedend bed rest so that's what I did...then I was so scared I had to take a plane back home and I did. my doctor also said it was okay to do so when I got home I had to be rushed to the hospital and they did an ultrasound to make sure the baby was okay and they also told me is was a baby boy me and my fiance was so excited we where going to have a baby boy and he looked very big and healthy in the untrasoud he moved a lot....then the nurse tells me don;t moved I have to call someone to come get you and put you in a room you going to be stayin I thinking it was that serious until I got to the room and I seen everything ready for me to deliver when I got to the room I started yelling and screamin no no no my baby to little to come to this world he not going to make it and the nurse yes I know its hard OMG I started yelling more and I could believe this was happening to me 2 hrs later after crying and crying the nurse said that they might be able to help me carry the baby for a couple more weeks so the baby could make it then I was a little happy that there was a HOPE! I was already 10 cn dilated so they put something to help me carry for a couple more weeks they keep me in the hospital for a couple days and the same day they send me home at night my water broke I was then 22 weeks when I gave birth to my baby boy Ikeem on 3-10-08 he only survived for an hour this been a very hard thing to have to go thru..its hard for me to also see women pregnant and new borns I feel very unhappy and very lonely... especially now that I don't have him with me nor I feel him in my stomach moving I have had a lot of family support but people that never had a pregnancy loss would really know how its feels..my heart goes to all the mothers that have had loss there angels and just have faith god and our angels will always be with us.

kelly22

was carring twins

i was pregnant. i told my partner and we were over the moon. 3 weeks later i started bleeding and had pain. they rushed me to the hospital. i was in even more pain in the hospital and they had to give me maufeen as pain relief. I went for in ternal scan and they said there was one half babies there and that i was bleeding from inside my womb and that from my last miscarriage there was peices there that's what caused this miscarriage. so do me a favor: if u have a miscarriage make sure u have a dnc so it won't happen in ur next pregnancy ok

tara

Coping with Miscarrige

I miscarried 10 days ago hence why I am writing this.

I had started getting spoting around 11 weeks, nothing heavy and to be honest, I wasn't that worried about it as I have a son who is now 3 and had a bit spotting with him. Anyway, went for scan at 12 weeks and she said baby looked fine, however, the nuchal fluid measured more than 3mm and anything over that was a concern. I decided on having an amnio to find out if there was an abnormality with the baby. I worried right up until this date. When we got taking for the test, the scan before it showed there was no heartbeat. My baby had died. I was in shock. Even though I had been worrying I just wasn't prepared for this. We got taking into that room where you pray you don't have to go and we cried. I had to take the tablet. I went back to the hospital 2 days later to deliver my baby and it was the saddest thing in my whole life I have ever had to do. I have been told I will be invited back to the hosp for the results of the PM arounds 6 wks time and I just hope to god it was nothing I have done or could have prevented...and I pray I can go on and have more babies, I am so worried if I try again this will happen as from what I have been reading on line, lots of women miscarry more than once. Thanks for reading folks x

jo2001