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My story!!!
I didn't even know that I was pregnant, I had been having female problems and went to a gynocogist to get checked out.. The doctor had told me that it was cycst around my ovaries and my layer around uterus was thin like if my ovaries were functioning fine, but she said that they were not, she went ahead and put me on three different types of medication. About two weeks later I began to have abdominal pain servere, I phoned her and she asked me to come in. She then changed my medication and said that I should be fine. A couple of days later I became dilusional and forgetful, I had even forgot to pick up my two older kids from school and would forget where I would be drivng too. My vision started becoming blurry unable to function right.. So my husband thought that maybe I was just stressed, and took me and the kids to a hotel with a slide built in for a small vacation, during our stay i really became dilusional and began bleeding, we decided to cut it short and come home. I then called the gynocologist and she said that she would call in some pain med for me and that the bleeding was normal.. Ok I said then on the following day I became weak and pale and was loosing tons of blood that a friend that came over to visit said there is something seriously wrong with you let me take you to the emergency room, but i kept telling her no lets go to my gynocologist finally i just passed out and she went ahead and took me to the E.R. I then was told that I was having a tubal miscarriage... I was three months along. I just dont know how to overcome this since my husband and I had been trying for so long to have a baby, I just can't seem to stop crying and pulling myself together for my two older children that need me...My husband seems to be dealing with this so much better than me. We did name him Nicolas T. I just miss him so much. I can not deal with this i feel so alone...Thank you for listening to my story..

marie

My first born

Hello all....................my heart goes out to you all. In March of 2008 I delivered my first child.......he was stillborn. I was devestated and thought I was having a nightmare. I went to the hospital because I thought my water had broken. When we arrived we were put on the monitor and the nurse could not find my son's heartbeat. The minute the monitor was put on my stomach I knew something was wrong because it soumded so empty inside my tummy. It was confirmed on two ultrasound machines that my son had died in the womb. We could not believe that this had happened to us, we did everything right and we were going to be that best parents.......or so we thought. When he was born there was a blood clot in the cord so close to his stomach that I was sure it had come from him and not my plecenta. The autopsy confirmed that it had come from him and had he been born alive he would have passed shortly after that. We got to hold him and say our goodbyes and he was perfect.....I miss him dearly. I told my fiance that I want to give our son a sibling sooner than later. I feel I owe that to my sonso that as he is watching down on us he knows that we will be okay and I want nothing more than to feel life inside my stomach again. Having another child is not replacing him but it is a piece of mind for us to know that what had happened was a fluke thing that happens in 1 of 200 pregnancies. Our son deserves a sibling!!!! We love and miss you so much " Scoot Scoot"!!!!

Kara

misscarriage twice in 4 months

hi my name is danielle, i am 17 yrs old. i found out in february that i was 5 wks pregnant. at 6 wks i started bleeding heavily and had bad pains. it felt like i was having a period but even worse pains. i knew this wasn't right and knew something was up so my mother inn law and partner took me to the hospital. there i did a scan which showed me the baby inside but it was to small to notice. there wasn't any heartbeat but i was to early in my pregnancy. so i was booked in for the following wed to try and find the heartbeat. on that following wednesday I had another scan but we coudn't find anything so i did a test. it come back negative so i knew i misscarried. i knew i was still young and had the rest of my life to look forward to. but i still felt upset. i decided to book myself for the rod implant to be put in to prevent getting pregnant again. 2 months after the rod was put in i had another misscarriage. this was very unexpected. i new it was a misscarriage because it was big clots and also the sack from inside me. i took this sack to the walking center and did a pregnancy test and it said positive. so in the past 4 months i have had 2 misscarriages .

danielle

blighted Ovum

I found out i was pregnant sometime in January because i missed my period. It was the happiest day of my life. This was my second pregnancy. I have a 3 and a half year old son from a previous marraige. This was my second child with my new husband. My pregnancy was pretty good for the most part. I did experience a few yeast infections but i guess thats normal. I had some brown discharge i thought it was from the yeast infection so my doctor advised that i go to the hospital to get it checked out. They defintly told me i was bleeding and ordered a ultrasound and i was about 14 weeks at this time. They explained to me that i had a empty sack with no visible pole or yolk. I was a bit confused. I didn't know what happened to the baby it never had happened to me before. I do understand more now about it. It was a hard month for me in march. My mom died on march 21st, I had a misscarraige on march 23rd and had a D&C done on march 26th and i am trying to concieve again. It's been almost 5 weeks now. I have questions for anyone that has been through what i went through? How long after miscarring should i have a period? because it's been 5 weeks now and i don't want to get my hopes up about being pregnant. I hope that i am. Also what are my chances of getting pregnant after a miscarraige? Any answers will be helpful. thank you and god bless everyone. thank you for hearing my story.

veronica

sad and lonely

I found out i was pregnant about three weeks ago at first i was a little shocked because my relationship with the father who was my ex-fiance had ended the week before and i was still in shock from that, then this.

I was very excited because i believe every pregnancy is a blessing no matter what the circumstances. For a week i was having brownish discharge which the doctor said was pretty normal, then on sunday i began to have more of a brownish spotting. This lasted a day when i couldn't take it anymore and i called the doctor they said to come in.

I hadn't had my first visit yet cuz i was only 6 1/2weeks. The dr. did a blood test and a pap telling me everything looked normal and i just had some old blood in there. Not even a half an hour after the appt. i started bleeding red blood and two hours later huge clots came out. i went to the emergency room where they did an internal ultrasound and they told me i had indeed had a miscarriage.

I am completely devastated. i went from one major loss to another and am feeling more alone than ever. I just want the symptoms to stop so i can stop being reminded of losing my baby! Also, im sick of hearing maybe it was for the best given my situation. Quite frankly that just upsets me more when they say that!

My friend is pregnant and we were due a week apart and i kinda feel like a bad friend because although im happy for her it is just hard to talk to her about it when it just reminds me i am no longer pregnant we were supposed to get big together.

If anyone has advice on coping with this i could sure use it right now! Please

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