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The loss of my baby

I found out I was pregnant when I was six weeks and I was so excited when I found out.I started telling all my family members and they were glad I always thought I wasn't going to be able to conceive because my husband and I had been together for ten years and never got pregnant.

I was ten weeks pregant when I had the miscarriage and it was probably the worst day. I thought it was all a dream. I cried for days and could not contain my emotions.

I just hope that God will one day give us a baby.

Lissette

was it twins?

About 5 yrs ago I had my second baby, which was a boy. I kept having stomach pains after his birth. I kept asking the doctor about the pain, 6 months later he tells me I am pregnant again. Wow, I think again. After about 2 months of back and forth to the doctor and ultrasounds they finally say I am not really pregnant. I think how can that be?

He asked me if I had been bleeding or anything, I respond with " No". So he says if I don't start bleeding between now and next week I would have a D&C. So the next week came and I am still not bleeding, he still schedules me for the procedure. He said I had the sac and such but the baby never developed, meaning there was no baby.

I was very confused and didn’t understand at all. I went ahead with what he said to do because he is the doctor, right? And now I wonder could this have been a twin to my pregnancy 6 months before?


Nisha

own your own

Recently after leaving a difficult marriage, I pursued a new career attending college as my 3 children are in school now.

I met a new guy, things were great, until in Dec I realized I was 3 weeks late, I was on my pill. I put it down to stress.

I began to bleed mid-January. I knew myself then that I must have been pregnant. I was in so much pain, but it passed. My doctor told me there was no real way of telling, he told me to leave it a few weeks and if I still had cramping I would need a d & c.

I had an appt, which was at the last minute put off due to two emergencies in the dept, so I am waiting on another appt.

My "partner" however said he does not believe a word of this and it never happened. The realization is now hitting me that I did loose a baby. I feel very alone, and he won’t even speak to me. I don’t know where he is. I need him to help me with this.


mary

MY story

I have 3 gorgeous sons but I have 2 angels watching us.

I had my first son trouble free, and when he was 18 months old we decided to go for baby #2. It took around 9 months and everything seemed fine but deep down I had a bad feeling. I went for a 9-week u/s to check dates but I had a blighted ovum. I had a D&C the following week.

We waited 3 months before trying again and it took a year and we fell pregnant with son #2. As soon as he was born we decided to start trying again. He was 10 months old when I feel pregnant. Once again I had a bad feeling but tried not to let it worry me. I went for a dating scan at 10 weeks only to find out our baby had died the week before.

Sometimes when I close my eyes I can still picture the baby just lying there motionless. I had a D&C the following day. Two months later we fell pregnant with son # 3. We are currently trying for baby #4.




Nic

miscarriage

I am 43 years old and married for 3 years. I didn't think I could get pregnant. I am never late with my period. I was supposed to get my period Feb. 5th. On Feb.6th I took a pregnancy test, not even thinking that I would be pregnant. The test came out POSITIVE! I couldn't believe it.

I called my husband and he thought I was pulling his leg. He was soooo happy. I called my girlfriend who just had twins and wanted her to call her doctor (high risk) to try and get me in. He told me to come right in. He did a urine test and a sonogram. The doctor told me I was pregnant! We saw the sac! The doctor said my levels were low and he wanted me to go for a blood test the next day to see if my levels go up. I went for the test yesterday morning. The doctor called me last night and told me that the levels were lower and that I would miscarry! So I have to sit here and wait! I don't understand!

I have an appointment on Monday so he can see what is going on. I asked him if my levels will go up and he said no. He wants me to go for blood work tomorrow just so I can see that my levels will not go up. I am really confused!




Lynn